The operative word being "feel" like you are being talked down to. You are not being talked down to.
I teach self defence. By asking how the restraint works in reality during an unplanned conflict, I'm asking you to put yourself into the reality if the situation, and possibly come to the realization yourself that it is not as easy as saying he could have easily restrained her.
It is discussion through participation. It is healthy debate, and an exchange of ideas and experiences.
I understand that women are strong, and he obviously felt the need to restrain her.
What I don't get is he is very obviously in control, verbally and physically.
We don't actually know what happened that night.
Why did he withhold her belongings, not let her go to the toilet or put her out the front door?
I think he should be found guilty of manslaughter.
I think the jury will find him not guilty.