That she contacted him first, spoke volumes to me.
She spelled out in black and white exactly how the relationship was... hitting the nail on the head at every point. If only she could have realized the meaning of what she was describing... a perfect picture, imho, of a man who neither cared about nor respected her.
I've thought about this many times, and my gut feeling is that if she hadn't contacted him first, she may very well have simply never heard from him again.
BBM
Do we have the phone records for that time?