I don't think her roommates should be blamed for her going back out, when she may have made a point of avoiding them. They likely feel guilt enough anyway.
as much as it pains to say it, IF you have a houseparty and are having drinking going on, and someone does get drunk there, underage, and you were a part of that, you are not in the clear in terms of what happened to them. its responsibilities, all around at that point. i wouldn't call it blame, but that they might feel guilty, thats a good thing. people should step up and take responsibility, and try to hold themselves accountable for the actions' that they can control. was salinas out of the radar in terms of them helping her?
i dont know. they saw her leave for her bfs house, correct? was she intoxicated at that moment?
ive been in near fist-fights trying to get keys out of the hands of people who shouldnt be driving. she went 65mph down salado into a 15mph turn. she obviously wasnt acting rationally. so, im just suggesting that YES the roommates who saw her leave, could of done something different. an argument and fight at that moment, could of prevented what is now unknown. i just mention this, not because of the regrets or what could of been done, but as to speak towards the lack of regard for her safety, and others too. my friend was almost killed by a speeding jerk leaving mill ave on 5th/hardy about 2 years ago. so, its not just her safety, and thats what i speak towards. but thats a whole nother convo, i guess.
IF you have a party going on, and a roommate for some reason not only has to sneak back in but doesnt wanna stay at her own house at 4-5am after an accident, we can at least be suspect as to why she felt uncomfortable in her own apt. did she also argue w roommates? or people at party?
when did the party end?
