gubler_love
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i've lurked here for quite some time now, and 5 or 6 years ago used to post here quite often, but i honestly couldn't even remember the name i had back then. life got in the way and i forgot about this place for awhile. that being said... i've been reading along this isa case, and while i haven't been thru thread #17 yet there are a lot of things i've wanted to say but from my phone just seemed way too tiring. now that i'm @ a computer i'd like to share them...
God forbid something ever happen to my child like this. idk if the parents are involved or not re: isa, there are signs that point to yes, signs that point to maybe, and signs that point to no. but until we kno FOR SURE, sometimes IMOO things go a little crazy on here @ times. my son is 8, ADHD, last week on my FB page i posted "started division in math today, my son's teacher must not value my child's life, because yes (child's name), 24/8 is 4, you're right, always, i haven't been doing this 20 years" --- now obv that was a joke. i would NEVER threaten my child's life over division. it was a funny, it was frustration. however, there is NO doubt in my mind if my child was suddenly missing and some of you from this board saw that, i'd be flamed and tore to PIECES. i say random stuff like that here and there, in between pictures of him playing baseball or swimming, along w/ mundane status updates that NO ONE cares about.
a lot of you have talked about the lack of many pics of dad... maybe he's taking the pics a lot of the time? or maybe he's @ work? my son's father is not in a lot of pics, and i'm in even fewer because during the work week, i'm basically a single mother and am taking the pics.
to go along w/ all of that... my father, whom my mom divorced when i was 2, and who i never have been close w/ since but do occasionally visit and who yes, does kno my son, was arrested about 5 years ago from possession of meth making materials. he did 4 months in prison, went to boot camp (for first time offenders here in michigan) and has been clean since. i would hate for it to be automatically assumed that based on that alone that hours upon hours upon hours would be spent here debating a drug ring having to do w/ my child's disappearance if it were to ever happen, when there really was so SOLID evidence of it.
now all that being said... i kno this is a "sleuthing" board. and i kno that if you didn't, what else would you do? but seriously guys, from an "outsiders" perspective, sometimes it gets CRAZY. it's pages upon pages of "theories" based from one itty bitty miniscule detail that likely has nothing to do w/ anything. i think it's fine to say "hey i noticed this" or "hey i noticed that" but to start w/ the parents and then end up sleuthing the dad's grandpa's mom's sister's uncle's twice removed 4th cousin's drug dealing mexican friend who might be part of a cartel gets a little crazy. keep in mind that her family who ISN'T involved, might also be looking for "clues" and might stumble upon this site, and i think it's fair to say they are already in a LOT of pain w/out being completely ripped apart by strangers.
that's all. sorry for the novel. and i sure hope they find isa soon... one way or another. i cannot imagine a greater pain than not only having a child taken from you, but then not knowing what may or may not have happened to that child.
God forbid something ever happen to my child like this. idk if the parents are involved or not re: isa, there are signs that point to yes, signs that point to maybe, and signs that point to no. but until we kno FOR SURE, sometimes IMOO things go a little crazy on here @ times. my son is 8, ADHD, last week on my FB page i posted "started division in math today, my son's teacher must not value my child's life, because yes (child's name), 24/8 is 4, you're right, always, i haven't been doing this 20 years" --- now obv that was a joke. i would NEVER threaten my child's life over division. it was a funny, it was frustration. however, there is NO doubt in my mind if my child was suddenly missing and some of you from this board saw that, i'd be flamed and tore to PIECES. i say random stuff like that here and there, in between pictures of him playing baseball or swimming, along w/ mundane status updates that NO ONE cares about.
a lot of you have talked about the lack of many pics of dad... maybe he's taking the pics a lot of the time? or maybe he's @ work? my son's father is not in a lot of pics, and i'm in even fewer because during the work week, i'm basically a single mother and am taking the pics.
to go along w/ all of that... my father, whom my mom divorced when i was 2, and who i never have been close w/ since but do occasionally visit and who yes, does kno my son, was arrested about 5 years ago from possession of meth making materials. he did 4 months in prison, went to boot camp (for first time offenders here in michigan) and has been clean since. i would hate for it to be automatically assumed that based on that alone that hours upon hours upon hours would be spent here debating a drug ring having to do w/ my child's disappearance if it were to ever happen, when there really was so SOLID evidence of it.
now all that being said... i kno this is a "sleuthing" board. and i kno that if you didn't, what else would you do? but seriously guys, from an "outsiders" perspective, sometimes it gets CRAZY. it's pages upon pages of "theories" based from one itty bitty miniscule detail that likely has nothing to do w/ anything. i think it's fine to say "hey i noticed this" or "hey i noticed that" but to start w/ the parents and then end up sleuthing the dad's grandpa's mom's sister's uncle's twice removed 4th cousin's drug dealing mexican friend who might be part of a cartel gets a little crazy. keep in mind that her family who ISN'T involved, might also be looking for "clues" and might stumble upon this site, and i think it's fair to say they are already in a LOT of pain w/out being completely ripped apart by strangers.
that's all. sorry for the novel. and i sure hope they find isa soon... one way or another. i cannot imagine a greater pain than not only having a child taken from you, but then not knowing what may or may not have happened to that child.