Ok. I am going to get slammed for what I'm about to ponder out loud. But if there is any online forum that I would EVER post what I'm about to, it's here --because you all are pretty calm and collected and know how to "toss ideas around" without freaking out. So I'm just tossing this out there. PLEASE understand that this is not my opinion, but something I've wondered about ever since I've been a mother. Do you think that putting children in daycares from infancy then into school then after school care etc etc could be psychologically damaging SOME of them. I KNOW that some people have no choice. I'm just wondering because I have a couple of friends that put their babies in at 7am and don't get them until 6pm. That's a LONG time to be away from their mothers 5 days a week. Their older school aged children go to before care at school, then school, then are bused to an aftercare at a daycare. In nature, with most mammals, it is not normal for babies to be away from their mothers for such long periods of time. Again, I am NOT judging. I'm just wondering if this could be negatively affecting the psychological development of SOME of these children that are away from their mothers.
Personally, I am a ninny and am on the other end of the spectrum and rarely leave my babies until they are fully weaned around 2 years old, and trust me, I get lots of snickering from friends and family about that. Thus, I try my hardest not to judge other mothers and their breastfeeding, daycare, etc decisions.
So, I'm not judging,. I'm just looking at what is natural for a mammal, and wondering about extended long term daycare.
HouDat, please don't think that I am singling you out for your opinion. I honor and respect your theories and opinions.,, and your sense of humor ain't bad either..
With that said, please consider the shattered vase analogy. That one missing char that may allow investigators to reassemble the vase may be held by a member of the public, that doesn't know that it is the missing char.
There are many families of the missing/murdered such as the Ali Lowitzer family that have a hole in their heart that only Ali can fill..
All available resources should be used in the Brandon S. Lavergne; serial killer multi-state investigation to insure that all the chars are recovered..
those photos of brandon lavergne make me sad.
I look at photos of young people and think of how they have time on their side like a pocketful of glittering doubloons. How they are looking forward to whatever life has to hold. Things like slow-dancing in a barn or kissing under the stars. Marrying the lover of their dreams.
They are young and going somewhere - they know that, though they know not where.
I think of the sad-looking, defeated man in chains who sleepwalks wordless into a courtroom and wordless back out, getting into a car that will now take him to the rest of his life. Nothing left to look forward to.
And now i put that image alongside those of a mother and a young woman, looking forward as well to the joy life can bring.... And they are all just gone. Their lives built toward an unlooked-for meeting... Collided and disintegrated, leaving them and those around them in irrevocable pieces.
How deeply sad this case is. How very quiet it has made me feel.
I pray for all three of their souls, and for the families that loved them.
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peepop123, one thing you might could do is take some of that energy and motivation and emotion and channel it in another, but maybe somehow related, direction for a while.
You know -- get involved with an organization that works with at-risk youth ... Volunteer at a homeless shelter ... Work with a group that rescues or fosters animals ... Many other possibilities, but you get the idea, do something that makes a difference in at least a tiny corner of the world. (think how mickey would probably like that idea -- you'll be honoring her.)
be careful, of course, but do something that reaches out beyond your normal boundaries. You may never know the impact you make ... But you might keep someone else from becoming a victim of violence, or you might keep someone away from the road to becoming a perpetrator.
Just some ideas!
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?f...514828506.79108.218457121540512&type=1&ref=nf
for some reason this photo reminds of the mighty mick...
great advice backwoods !!
LOL, a 'regular cajun boy'.............as opposed to other American boys???
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?f...514828506.79108.218457121540512&type=1&ref=nf
For some reason this photo reminds of the Mighty Mick...
reedus23, I suspect the dwindling number of executions are for various reasons; expense/judicial budget cuts, number of prisoners exonerated due to DNA/forensics upgrades, and see below..
http://www.un.org/apps/news/story.asp?NewsID=42382
Secretary-General calls on States to abolish death penalty
www.un.org/apps/news/story.asp?NewsID=42382Jul 3, 2012 United Nations Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon today called on Member ... endorsed a call for a worldwide moratorium of the death penalty.
Evidence and statements gathered during the investigation of Mickey Shunick's murder at the hands of Brandon Lavergne will not be released to the public at this time because of ongoing investigations.
http://www.theadvertiser.com/article/20120827/NEWS01/208270314/Lavergne-records-remain-sealed
Just some random thoughts that I've been wanting to post and probably should have long ago. I don't even know how I learned of Mickey's case. Somehow, though, I did and it lead me to this site. There was something about Mickey's spirit and the spirit of her family that drew me back day in and day out. I have found the outpouring of support from people that don't even live in the area to be just unbelievable. Whether its the moderators keeping us in check, while also keeping us somewhat focused on the task at hand, or whether its an occasional poster, each and everyone have my utmost respect and admiration for the tears and sweat you put into these cases.
As much as I have been inspired by those individuals, I have to say that the locals have found a special place in my heart. It starts with Mickey. Something about her spirit permeates even through the darkest of times. There is just something that a physical hand just can't touch and something that just couldn't be taken away no matter what she went through. I find that same type of spirit in Charlene. Her courage, strength and unwillingness to ever give up while at the same time maintaining an even keel throughout what is undoubtedly the toughest times in her life to date are amazing. Much the same can be said about the rest of her family and friends. Brettly also stands out to me. Despite being on many people's radar early on, he never let that dissuade him from carrying Mickey's torch.
That brings me to the rest of the locals. The passion and compassion shown throughout this has really struck me. The sense of community exhibited is unbelievable. I have learned so much about the culture and way of living in Louisiana and I am so much better for it. There is a never give up mentality that I hope I can carry with me well after the last report is typed and the last sentence is handed down. I just wanted to take this opportunity to give a big thank you to each and every one of you for not only doing everything you could to help bring Mickey home, but for the way you literally brought the rest of us into Cajun country and made us feel right at home. As an aside on that topic, I am a college football fan and when not rooting for my own team, now I won't be able to help but also yell "Geaux Tigers!!!" on Saturdays.
Also, my heart goes out to the family of BSL. From everything I've read, much of the investigation could not have happened without the courage they have shown in doing that which must have been difficult when it is a family member involved. I truly hope that the family finds strength and peace as time goes by.
At the end of the day, as I see it, its not about who posts more. It's not about finding that one clue that breaks a case wide open (though that would be nice). It's more about coming together as a community, whether it's in Lafayette or here in cyber space and saying, no, this violence, these actions, will not be tolerated and justice will be had. This coming together as a community, as I see it, is the best weapon in the fight against crime.
On a lighter note, out of curiosity I went back and started looking at some of my posts starting early on and, well, there is no doubt in my mind that Perry Mason I will never be. Sorry for the long rambling post, but thanks to everyone, from Mickey to the lurker who never posts and everyone in between.
RE: On Aug. 20, The Daily Advertiser submitted a public records request to Lafayette Police Chief Jim Craft and Hebert seeking the opportunity to review various statements, documents and evidence gathered during the three-month investigation that followed Shunick's disappearance.
Hebert responded that releasing the requested information "could severely jeopargize ongoing criminal investigations."
Among the requests was one for logs or reports of evidence recovered from Lavergne's property and home on Elaine Lane.
"It is this office's intention to ensure the integrity of all documentary, testimonial and physical evidence discovered thus far and not to release any information which could joepardize any jurisdiction or agency's investigations into other potential crimes," Hebert wrote.
RE/RE: Hebert responded that releasing the requested information "could severely jeopargize ongoing criminal investigations."
"When will they ever learn"? Silence/misinformation/lack of transparency by LE/Justice System only causes innocent victims lives lost and mounting cold cases..
"Silence & Misinformation is the predator's most Lethal Weapon"!!!
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"Why, that it is important for the citizens to be informed of how cases and investigations are handled. "Public Safety"...
Transparency: 'Criminal Profiler Pat Brown'
We could use a strong accountability system not dependent on appeals, but rather oversight. The public/citizens have a right to know exactly how decisions are made and cases are handled.
It does not have to be in the midst of the case but certainly afterward there should be transparency. If there isnt, how can we address issues of corruption*, incompetance, and error?
We need to know in order to fix problems and hold people accountable for what is supposed to be work done on behalf of the citizens. Somehow the interest of the state seems to preclude the citizenry which is odd considering the state IS the citizenry, well, at least in a democratic republic with a constitution..
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"Prolific Psychopathic Serial Killer Brandon S. Lavergne, was actively preying on innocent victims, which began a minimum of 13 years ago". He was enabled to remain stealth due to the silence by LE/Justice System. An aware public's tips and the heroic sacrifice by Mickey Shunick, is the primary reason that BSL's trail of terror was abruptly ended.
"Why would you squander your most valuable investigative resource; the American public"?