Hatfield
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The Elvis impersonator on the family:
"Watching them now its kind of haunting and disturbing, Ripley told the Associated Press. They all looked young and thin but I figured it was just their lifestyle. Maybe the activities they did, maybe because of their religious beliefs. I didnt get that in depth with them but I knew they were a fun family.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...of-strange-behavior-family-and-neighbors-say/
Some people, not necessarily here, have publicly wondered why he didn't make a call to someone. It appears as though, while he might have thought they were a little different, he didn't see anything that would make him pause and consider abuse. My guess is that the entire amount of time he spent with them is seen on tape and while they are a little awkward and shy, they DO appear to be having fun and getting into the shtick.
I want to send them a card or something but I also want to wait. I'm afraid they're going to get all of this attention in the beginning but then, as the year progresses, it will slowly die off and that's when they'll need it the most. I have experience with that. My son died (it was sudden, there was no illness) 7 years ago. For the first few weeks, people were over every day. They were cleaning the house, packing up his toys for me, bringing over dinner, and just sitting with me and visiting. By about the 6-month mark, however, they'd all moved on and I was left almost entirely alone. Unfortunately, that's when I needed people the most. In a lot of traumatic situations, you're kind of running on adrenaline in the beginning; everything is moving so quickly. It takes weeks, and sometimes months, to digest everything and start processing it. The rest of the world has moved on but you're just starting to open your eyes, in a sense. I am therefore going to keep up with this family and try to stay abreast of what's going on so that I can perhaps send something later on, once things have kind of settled and they're not being inundated with so much at once. They're probably going to need it then, too. :-(
That is so thoughtful of you and you are right that is likely to happen. Thanks for thinking of them long term.
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This reminded me of a time when we threw my passed on Gram her 80th surprise birthday party. She was the patriarch of the family and an amazing person.
As everyone was preparing to get ready and go to the fancy restauarant we were going to surprise her with I noticed everyone had left her alone in the downstairs area by herself. Everyone upstairs was all excited and getting all ready to go and the special person of the day was all alone. I made sure some of us went down to join her and talk to her before the big announcement was made that this was her day and she was being taken to a special surprise birthday dinner.
Sometimes we all get caught up in the excitement of things and forget what is really important.
For their children it will be the long term care that will be very important.