Yes, she was the primary care giver but there is nothing (that I know of) that says that she is the dominant parter.
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I doubt DT picked out their clothes or dictated their hair styles. His hair style was just as ridiculous as his sons'. I think LT was in total control of the children and he just went along with it. Which, of course, makes him just as guilty because he failed to prevent any of it.