I'm deeply sorry as well (responding to those who have said the same).
I definitely remember putting myself into a few different situations that were quite sketchy when I was in college, and thinking, *This was probably a bad idea...*, but the only reason I lived to tell about them, is because I lived to tell about them. That it. I was just lucky that no sketchy situation went too south. Of course now looking back, I think "I would SO UPSET if my kid did anything that stupid!", and now I understand how putting yourself into sketchy situations is no different than playing Russian roulette. That is my warning from an older kid to a younger kid.
I wish teens and 20-somethings especially, would stop making decisions that could potentially put them in critical danger, but it seems many just do at one point or another. All parents can do I think, at his age, is try to be accepting of him as a person (which they seem to have been to a degree at least) and point out the dangers of meeting with strangers in secluded places for any reason (which is what I feel happened, but we will find out in time). Meet in daylight hours in public and use your instincts to get an idea of what the person is like (safety-wise) before you go off with them to where no one can see or hear you. I totally get apps like Tinder & Grindr (I'm just over the age of a mellenial). I get the want for atonomy or a quick hookup, especially amongst gay men. I get it. But think of your life too, and the fact that something could go south, or that you could also be lured into something which has happened several times as well. There have been women killed by men they met on Tinder too. I just read about a mom of 3 who was murdered near Seattle, and also that girl who was visiting NZ for a wedding, who was thrown off a balcony by her Tinder "date". There have always been bad people in the world, but I really feel that with the ability to cast a wider net amongst who you meet, the dangers of meeting people who wish you harm have also vastly increased.
I feel so, so sad for Blaze's parents, his siblings, and his friends, but most of all, for Blaze. It's just not fair that he didn't have the chance to live so much of his beautiful life on this earth. Saying a prayer for him and his family. So sad.