Hello,
I’m new to this forum. I’ve been reading pretty much since the beginning of Bryce’s disappearance, but just recently registered to post. I am from Naperville living just a few blocks from where Bryce and his family lived. My son is friends with Bryce and texted me (he’s in school in Arizona now) as soon as he saw Karen’s (Bryce’s mom) post about Bryce missing. Brian (my son) is 2 years older so they didn’t see each other too much in school, but met thru a mutual friend and then Brian recruited Bryce to play on the baseball team he was on. I believe they also went to football summer camp together. They became friends and hung out together. There was a time I think Brian was at Bryce’s house more than his own!
I have had mixed feelings about all the possibilities of what happened to Bryce. But I keep coming back to one scenario….that Bryce planned to go missing. He hasn’t been found because he doesn’t want to be found. I hate to think that because it’s hard to believe that he would let his parents go thru this, but most teenagers go thru a rebellious period and you never know how that will play out. It was one of my son’s scenarios that he came up with as well. One of his questions to me was “If Bryce is hiding out, will he get in trouble for this?” He didn’t mean with his parents, he meant with LE because of all of the resources that are being devoted to the search. If Bryce is hiding out, that may be one of his fears.
His roommate made comments like “he’s trying to find himself right now”, “he doesn’t want to be found”, “not worried” and “having some issues right now”. Obviously, the roommate has had in depth conversations with Bryce on whatever turmoil was going on with him. He mentioned he felt a lot of pressure to get good grades, even though he always did and was having trouble finding a job. As we all know, teenage years are tough and some kids put more pressure on themselves than anyone else in their world does. Maybe he was feeling pressure from his parents….I don’t know, I can’t speak to that. I do know that his parents were at all of his baseball games cheering him on.
Now for some of the timeline items that don’t line up for me. I’m not from, nor have ever been to, California so I had to Google to come up with the approximate driving times from one location to another. Feel free to correct me if I’m way off.
1) From Chico (where he started his journey after visiting the g/f) to Laguna Niguel is approx 8 hours. Not an extremely long trip and probably could have been made in one shot, with a short rest period, for the average person. However, since we know Bryce was operating on no sleep, perhaps a little longer. But from Wed night to Friday 2:08 a.m. (last convo with Mom) seems a bit much (and he wasn’t even there yet)….seems like he was avoiding going home or thinking about how best to “disappear”.
2) 2:08 a.m. Friday – Talks to Mom, says the GPS indicates 3 hrs 25 mins to Laguna, was tired, going to pull over and sleep. We know he was already in Castaic as the camera captured him 2:09/2:10 a.m. Castaic to Laguna Niguel is approx 1-1/2 hrs….maybe longer in bad traffic, but how bad could traffic be at 2 a.m.? Did he deliberately mislead his mom on where he was? There was also an earlier phone call that Mom indicated she couldn’t get anything out of him. Being deliberately vague?
3) 4:20 a.m. – captured on camera again. Why circling around again? Where was he in between the two times he was captured on camera? Looking for the right place to “crash” the car, but not bad enough that he would be seriously injured. Didn’t the uncle who is out in Cali (retired LE) indicate that based on his analysis of the crash site, it appeared that he accelerated rather than brake?
4) If he didn’t want to be found, he would leave his cell phone so it couldn’t be used to locate him, like it was in Buttonwillow.
5) Where is the green Nike knapsack? Was it ever located? The duffel bag was unzipped…which may mean absolutely nothing. Or it might mean that he removed a few things that he might need. Another phone (pay as you go kind) that couldn’t be “pinged” to find him; some cash (could have borrowed from a friend, could have sold some video games or other belongings, etc); perhaps a change of clothes.
There are so many unanswered questions! What is the girlfriend saying about her conversation with him when he went there to supposedly break up? Was he trying to make a clean break if he knew he wasn’t going back…or at least anytime soon. Does he have any friends who are going to school somewhere in Cali that he could stay with until he figures things out? As difficult as it would be to imagine that he would put his family thru this, I hope this is the scenario. At least then we know/hope he is alive.
Side note – I pass Bryce’s old house every day to & from work. The house is the 2nd one in from the street I drive down so easily visible. Wondering if the new owners know Bryce’s family. There is a large orange ribbon tied around the mailbox. =)