Tomorrow I am going to try to contact the new LE person and see if they ever heard back on the dentals, or about the DNA sample. I'll also try again to get a better timeline if he seems open to discussing the case.
I sent another email to the SF ME yesterday but not holding my breath on getting an answer. This time, instead of suggesting the PM, I simply asked if it would be possible to double check the date/address.
Another thought I had - and I'm not sure what the procedure was/is, but if someone discovered human remains, I think they would call the police first, so there might be some kind of report on file with them also - and possibly a death certificate with the county clerk? The SFPD has a public record request form so I think I will try that also. It can't hurt.
Allads, do you recall where you called that you got that helpful librarian? Was it the main SF library? Perhaps there was also a newspaper article when the remains were found?
I wish we knew where the discrepancy is. It could be that the ME has it wrong (in which case the PD might have it right), or maybe it just got entered into NamUs wrong.
I was thinking that maybe it was, as someone had suggested awhile back, a derelict building that just didn't make it into the directories - but looking at those historic aerial views, it looks like there were 2 buildings there in the 50's, only 1 in 1968, and nothing by 1980. That is, if I was looking in the right place, it was kind of hard to tell what was what on those aerial views. (It makes sense since the directories changed from Jim's Barber Shop to Vacant in either 1967 or 1968.)
I am really hoping they had the address wrong, and not the year. If it is the right address, then it can't possibly be Farren. I think it would be hard to mix up 1984 and 1968, so I think there's a better chance that they have the wrong address.
I hope to have another update tomorrow!:crossfingers:
The above evidence I think is very strong that Farren was gay, and likely when he said he wanted to "see the world" when he turned eighteen, I think that may have been true. But I also think that Farren really wanted to go out and find peace and happiness in his life, which he may not have had as a child. We know that Farren was raised by his grandmother. This may have been said before, but I forgot, what is known about Farren's father? I seem to recall that either his parents were divorced or at the very least separated, but not sure. It does sound like Farren's Mother was cold, or at the very least indifferent to him.
Until that tragic time when Farren disappeared in 1980, he did call his family and inform them of his whereabouts. But when Farren talked about "seeing the world." Was he looking even at that time to associate with the gay community and needed to say something general like that, because he just could not "come out of the closet?" Was he fearful of his Mothers, if not other family's reactions, likley rejections, and had to leave?
Just to review, did Farren have any siblings? I wonder if and where they looked for him? Farren's Uncle has searched for him intently for years.
With the hope of Odyessy getting some help from the new LE investigators, I have linked the articles for us to review, so that they could be found more easily:
This is an essay about Farren:
http://whereaboutsstillunknown.wordpress.com/2013/03/31/farren-stanberry/
Here is Farren's case at Charlie Project:
http://www.charleyproject.org/cases/s/stanberry_farren.html
Notice the difference in Farren's appearance, especially with his hair. They almost look like different people! It is possible if Farren was gay, he may have been good at camouflaging his appearance, so those who looked for him may not have recognized him, even if they had seen him. However, we don't know the time spam between those pictures. Are they really all circa 1980?
To review again, this is Farren's case at Doe Network:
http://doenetwork.org/cases/931dmca.html
It says Farren's pictures are from 1979, and differs from Charlie Project's account that Farren also told his Aunt about his plans to "see the world."
Satch