Men blaming women for their actions goes all the way back to Adam and Eve.
I don't recall Anna Nicole Smith needing anyone to blame for her decision to marry a vulnerable, wealthy man for financial benefit, yet she definitely used controlling behaviour and coercive control to gain and maintain power and control over another person, as a victim, in order to subject that person to psychological, physical, sexual, or financial abuse. Likewise, men don't need anyone to blame for using money for the same ends.