Last school year, Jen may have had LR pick up Hasanni when she(or someone else) couldn't, and then drop off BOTH kids at Shuz. Maybe THIS is why he sent her the text. If you think about something like this freaking out MR. CONTROL FREAK then the text may take on a 'somewhat' different meaning.(still not right, NOT AT ALL) but when he says "This is f- over, I will watch her but he will be out on the BART and its your responsibility to hey (sic) him so f- you," Ross texted at 9:50 a.m. July 31st. School would be starting in a few weeks.
Wow, what a really interesting theory. What if this happened:
7/31 LR gets angry over something from the past and they fight. He ends the relay-shun-ship. But that's awfully hard to do with two kids in tow and two demanding schedules. So he says (to paraphrase):
"This is over. Now, I need to get you these kids so I can walk away fuming. I can't just ship a 18 mo old to you on BART, so I'll take AH to class with me. But I can't really take a five year old. So I'm going to drive him to Union City BART station, put him on the train. When he gets to Rockridge station, you walk the two blocks, leave work and go get him."
Of course, this is still reprehensible, even if Hasanni didn't have CP, a five year old would not be able to discern which station to get off at, let alone do it quickly with CP. You're also risking an abduction or him getting lost.
8/6 (Thursday night) Everyone is together at Wal-mart, but perhaps the anger is still there and the fighting continues.
8/7 (Friday) Trouble in paradise again. This time, LR is angry and needs another major action to take to "show" her, or to vent or whatever. He actually follows through and puts Hasanni on BART. Perhaps Hasanni doesn't make the trip to Rockridge station. Now they're screwed. They did something impulsive and regretful and the kid is actually lost or abducted, putting custody of AH and unborn child at risk.
8/8-8/9 (Weekend) LR and JC maybe do some searching of their own, albeit futile. They concoct story/plan.
8/10 (Monday) Next work day, they stage an abduction. No real loss in that they still would like to find the kid. Additionally, the neglect of leaving him by the car for 90 seconds (or five minutes, per LR) is less awful than the BART scenario. No body, no cleaning, no dumping. No Hasanni in Oakland that day.
I still personally think it's probably something worse, because you'd figure by now you'd have copped to it and the desire to find your child (and the intense scrutiny by public and LE) would make you give in and tell the truth. It's just not worth it at this point not to. But I'd say it's a plausible theory, given what we've been shown for sure by LE so far.
And I still think LE has some high cards up their sleeve at least. But this is a really interesting and actually possible scenario.