Yes. Frustrating in this circumstance, though I understand the reason for these policies. Here is a template we created for volunteers of the points we want to hit when contacting these institutions:
My name is ___________; I'm here on behalf of my friend Laura Beck, whose father, John Nelson Beck, went missing in the Bay Area on Tuesday, February 9th. (More information can be found at
https://www.facebook.com/findjohnbeck/.)
We have reason to believe that Mr Beck was under tremendous stress at the time of his disappearance and are making inquiries at shelters and psychiatric facilities where Mr. Beck may have turned to for help.
Mr. Beck is about 180 lbs, white, 5'11". He is a very gentle, kind soul and a beloved father, husband and grandfather.
Here are flyers with photos and contact information. I understand that confidentiality policies may make you unable to let us know if you've come across Mr. Beck, but if you could please let him know how desperately his family wants to know he's safe, we would so very much appreciate it. Thank you so much for taking the time to help in any way you can. Mr Beck's disappearance is filed with the Alameda PD, Case # 16-716.