I've not been able to post on this thread previously. I come and read, and I'm overwhelmed. Paris, San Bernardo, Pulse ect... and of course the individual cases here that make us long for... resolution, solutions...answers... something... So much pain and loss. Way too much!
Could not even bring myself to post, "How terribly sad", or even "I'm so sorry for your loss" to Gitana1 whom I admire so much, we don't always see eye to eye, but her intelligence, critical thinking skills, and always...warmth and caring for others... add so much to this forum, it's pleasure to interact with her here on any level. My heart is too broken to behave in an acceptable manor right now. please forgive me. Gitama1, I wish their was something I could do for you! But what is there? I can only feel some of the pain and hope that helps lighten it , for you a smidgen. I truly am so heart fully sorry. Jen had a lovely fantastic personality. By all accounts. Such a loss for us all, of a healthy, vibrant talented healer! Her smile alone is like a balm for the human condition. I am so very sorry, for us all!
I find my self angry, too angry to post, for fear of being insensitive. I have read as much as I can about the stories of those who lost their lives, trying to get a sense of their humanity... these people didn't live in the warehouse. They were guests of those who did. primarily, the resident "manager".
Shoot me, for saying this, but who ever decided that impassable death trap of a stair case, was a good idea... was "ART", is INSANE. I don't care how "magical", decorative or creative that passage might have appeared. It was the DIRECT cause of the demise of many, if not all, of these people.
It was the decision of madmen, to hold a public event, with such little regard to human lives. They couldn't even be bothered to have a simple cheap, metal escape ladder to throw out a window as an emergency fire escape? Couldn't have some cheap LED flashlights around, ( my God, even hand out small ones at the door!) in an space known for power outages?
These people should be alive . They probably had total faith, that there was some form of reasonable accommodations at this event they paid to attend. Even in a (relatively), lesser health emergency, that so called "stairway", was a impediment, at best, and a funeral pior at worst.
I read reports that some died quickly and didn't "suffer"... REALLY? How is that possible? Because they didn't have burned flesh? Are you kidding me? They were desperately trying to flee from an inferno.... PLEASE, do not insult my intelligence, by suggesting *terror* isn't a form of suffering! They suffered alright. All of them.
The total, disregard, for human life, in this situation is stupefying! In so many cases here, the loss of life was so unpreventable, unimaginable, and committed by evil beyond human understanding, that no preventive measures could have saved the day. BUT in this case, these people were human sacrifices to greed. YES! That makes me angry!
And while I'm at it.... I find that group shot at Denny's appalling to say the least! They look like Manson followers...What were they thinking, posing like survivors of some war showing support for their heroic support for their CO?!! They were gathering around a negligent homicidal sociopath, when they would have been better served to gather round the memorial for those who TRULY supported their lifestyle!
I am so sorry, for every one of us. Oh my God am I sorry!