Summary of Live and Die in LA podcast ("The Curious Case of Matthew Weaver
https://livediela.com/)
Family & Background
According to his family, Matthew had a tough childhood and struggles with depression. "He had a feeling of not being wanted."His dad had noticed his attitude and behaviours changing prior to this.
His bio mother left them when he was 4 months old - stepmom Brooke and dad (Matt Sr) are since divorced.
Matthew had an unstable living situation for a lot of the time and lived with his grandparents.
Matthew was kicked out of his grandmothers house less than 4 months before he disappeared and had gotten his own apartment in Grenada Hills.
Friends
Vanessa dated Matthew in high school in Simi Valley - according to her he was an outcast. Later she recalls his room being full of alcohol bottles in the recent months before he disappeared.
According to his best friends, Matthew was recently struggling with alcohol abuse and experimenting with drugs (psychedelics, cocaine) and was missing work, got caught by his dad doing drugs.
2-3 months before he disappeared he asked his friend Hunter for a gun. Hunter thinks it was just machismo.
That Day
The day he disappeared, he stopped by work to collect $400 cash, then went to see his dad. He had asked his dad for a gun on the prior visit. This night, he asked his dad if he could take a pic of the gun, then posted it on snapchat with the caption "game over".
Matthew then left to meet up with MS
Called MS around 9pm
Went to a Walmart, got gas, went to buy cocaine and then on to a pot dispensary
According to M, they at in front of her house until about 5am
During this time he was emotional and venting, basically in tears
She described the whole interaction as awkward, as they were new friends
Around 5am she got out and went inside and Matthew left
Overlook
V says the overlook area was a frequent hang for Matthew and he enjoyed racing his car on the roads.
They got location data from Snapchat to understand where he went after he left Mel's.
6:57am Matthew stops on Stunt & Saddle creek where the gate is unlocked
- Surveillance of Matthew's car going onto the fire road . His dad describes the road as "a one-way trip."
- It would not have been possible for the car to continue forward without going off the cliff (it was blocked by a small boulder)
8:21am calls his dad (missed)
11:48am calls M(missed)
M texts back she's at work
Matthew replies "like some crazy *advertiser censored* is going on, I need to talk while I have a chance"
1 hour later Mel responds "are u ok"
No further contact from the phone
Theory 1 : suicide
His friends J and F really don't think he was suicidal and that his interest in the gun was showing off (gang/rap culture).
Theory 2: drugs / accidental
His friends do confirm his drug and alcohol use but think he could handle himself.
Theory 3: foul play involving workers renovating the microwave tower
Brooke says the workers were hiding behind the bushes watching them search on a Friday morning. They were yelling profanities and telling them "the cops already looked, get out of here" even though they explained Matthew was their family.
They threatened the land surveyor, who took the photos, on a different day when he went to ask them some questions. One threatened him with mace.
Theory 4: foul play involving M
Friends strongly suspect her (they know her also).
They are unsure why Matthew would have contacted her last, or told her anything personal
They think he was targeted (alluding to drug buy robbery) but also very vague in fleshing out these suspicions.
M:
Last person to see matthew
Changed her story multiple times, and had lied to H about one of Matthew's friends being with them that night (that friend was in Las Vegas at the time)
When asked, H was not comfortable discussing any possible gang connections M may have publicly.
She posted a video on snapchat 8 days after the disappearance : (33:15)
"All you guys are
*advertiser censored* retarded if you really think I had
aaanything to do with (pause) the disappearance of
Matt. Like,
literally retarded. Because...if you wanna know where my *advertiser censored* whereabouts was...Saturday I was in Simi Valley. Sunday I was at
WORK. Friday I was at WORK. *advertiser censored* dumb-*advertiser censored* boys. (incoherent) like, I aint capable of all that. That's a whole-*advertiser censored* body."
M has not spoken to the media or family and appears to be in hiding (they are having to track her down) so they don't know what the details of the supposed emotional conversation was.
Evidence:
Family confirms the hat is 100% Matthew's
LAPD has possession of hat and shirt and will not test it or give it back.