Inquisitive2018
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Thanks for the explanationI’d like to quickly address the name changes as well (I counsel adoptive families). Many families choose to give their adopted children family names, change their middle name, and sometimes even the first name (depending on the situation). Our children all chose to change some part of their names, and two of them changed their names completely. Both of them were named after people who they were trying to forget.
The children are grafted into the adopting family, they are considered “biological” by law. IMO the biological family should not have been called into question so quickly. Birth mom hadn’t visited/seen the children in over two years.
So, yes, it’s done often in the adoption world and there is nothing “nefarious” about it.
Of course, there are so many other sketchy things about this case... IMO.
On another note the birth mom is very vocal but some of it isn't on MSM. I wonder if she knew who had adopted her kids prior and how vocal she was in getting them back prior to them going missing.
I dont think she has anything to do with their disappearance just intrested I'm the dynamics.