I had a strange dream that involved a swimming pool (no accident/tragedy involved). When I woke up this is what immediately came to mind ~
KC went to the no clothes party Memorial Day Weekend where she saw BS.
Multiple people saw her become upset and said she disappeared for over an hour and was crying over BS. She had told BS she had been pregnant (again?).
Apparently KC didn't get the reaction from him that she had hoped for.
KC had left Caylee at home, but instead of being able to tell CA that she wanted to go to a party with her friends (the old set who CA knew), KC had to make up a lie, to include the memo on the computer, to prove that she had to invisi work. CA was not allowing KC to socialize as a young person? Why not? If CA was always willing to watch Caylee when she was home, especially on weekends, why couldn't KC go to a party with her friends? This is where I conclude there was tension building and a real power struggle going on between them. CA threatens custody yet she won't watch Caylee for KC to go to a party over the Memorial Day weekend? KC lies, like a teenager, in order to be able to go. CA apparently watches Caylee with no problems when work related, yet, who is she fooling?
Early in June CA has a birthday and is feeling peeps aren't celebrating her the way she would like them to. Afterall, she's the one who does everything for everybody.
Although that is true, any of us who have had or have teenagers know that's not how life is - they care about their own social circles and not their mothers, that is,
as far as providing them company and hanging out with them. So CA was ditched on Memorial Day and ignored on her B-day. So is life.
Then CA lays into KC when she finds out that KC was not working on the day of the No Clothes party. This is one big fight and KC is really pizzed.
Could this have been June 9th?
After loosing BS for good, KC is hurting but she continues to mask it with other guys and latches onto Tony. Remember somewhere here, while IMing Iassen, he tells her that BS has gotten engaged. KC acts stoically but was she really crushed? Afterall, we've never heard of her displaying that much emotion as she reportedly did at the NoCPty.
It seems to me that KC's pseudo story of hoping to regain a relationship with a guy up in Jacksonville (where Ryan P. actually was), the recent rejection from BS, along with him becoming unavailable for good and the increasing pressure from her mother to act like Cindy herself, became too much for KC and she cracked in a very bad way.
I conclude that KC wanted desperately to be loved (but didn't have the tools to sustain a relationship because she was not strong in her essence -
(her Dad focused solely on her outward appearance) - and KC may have been tired of jumping from guy to guy.
She was trying hard to impress TL but she felt very insecure knowing he could go back to NY without her at any moment.
Put all the circumtances together, on top of her need to be independent from CA, her inability to become independent from CA, caused Caylee to become the victim of everyone else demanding what the other person didn't want to give to them.
In the meantime, GA is oblivious just taking care of himself and his yard/cars.