Not all Christians have this hate for the family, some of us still have some compassion for them. I believe they are in a living hell, but I don't blame them entirely for Casey's actions... she is an adult. I also don't blame them for holding on to hope as long as they can, nor do I judge their reasons for protecting Casey. And I believe they loved Caylee with all their heart.
I am angry with them, esp. Cindy, for the things they've said and done throughout this nightmare... yet I try to understand their thinking because if I were going through it, God knows I would be a total wreck by now and probably locked up in a padded cell, banging my head against the wall day and night. And I also realize that it would be very difficult... if not impossible... to turn your back on your child, no matter what they had done.
Also... one last thing I keep in mind. Caylee loved her grandparents, esp. Cindy... and I think she would be very upset if she knew the mean and hateful things people have said about them.
It's likely that a number of us would not get into their position, in the first place. This because we would not enable one of our children in her years-long habit of lying and lawbreaking. Many of us would, if she stole, let her get arrested and sit in jail. No bail outs, no covering up. In that way she would learn that she had to obey the law, and that she is responsible for the consequences of her actions.
Some of us, knowing that she is irresponsible, would have sought to take custody of the baby. Many of us would have taken action to check on the baby BEFORE a month had been allowed to pass.
That being said... if a child of mine killed a baby, I would turn her in, myself. Because if she could kill her own baby and then go out and party, then no one is safe from her.
I am not sorry for any of the adults who are trying to keep KC out of jail. I am sorry for the one who will never grow up to BE an adult.
BTW-- My guess is that the baby would want to be decently buried, rather than just flung out in the woods, somewhere. Do you suppose her family has considered that?