You should read up on denial....you don't seem to understand it.
Hi, Linda...I think the denial they're experiencing is not denial over Caylee's death at this point. I think the denial is due to not being able to face that Casey really did such a horrible thing...they just can't believe it of her. Once they admit Caylee is dead, they then have to face the ugly, harsh truth about Casey, and they just can't. They also can't face the feelings of guilt (whether rational or not) that they should've done more to clamp down on Casey all along, that they should've taken custody of Caylee, should've never let Casey leave with her....all the "if only" thoughts must be torturous and nearly impossible to face as well.
They're trying to hold on to a shred of their former life, before they learned how devious and horrible Casey truly is, before they realized what they're gonna have to live with the rest of their lives. They want it not to be true, it just can't be...therefore, they are trying to make it okay, to salvage something, anything. So until they can face that Casey really did harm Caylee, they will keep saying she's alive, even though they likely know more than we do about things and likely have known, IMO, since early on that Caylee will never come home alive.
They aggravate the hell out of me with all their lying, but I do feel so terribly sorry for the loss of BOTH their grandbaby and their daughter, and for having to face a truth so gut-wrenching that it's just unimaginable to me. I think they have every right to be supportive of Casey, but they
do not have carte blanche to lie to LE and the public in an attempt to help her evade justice, no matter how sorry we feel for them.
Just because Caylee isn't here any longer doesn't mean she doesn't count. Casey had a choice. Caylee didn't. While I understand the A's dilemma and fully expect them to support Casey, they have gone too far with it. They can support Casey
without telling lies and spinning things in an effort to
thwart justice for Caylee. At some point the truth
has to matter, for Caylee's sake. It hurts to see her own family forsaking her this way. I think that's what upsets a lot of people (I know it does me).
George may accept things eventually, once a trial actually proves what Casey has done. But Cindy...Cindy Anthony will never,
ever admit or accept that Casey harmed Caylee. Even after she's convicted. Not only would that mean she'd have to face all the pain of this horribly tragic hell Casey has relegated her to...but, frankly, she'd see it as a reflection on her, and she is the type that just can't have that, IMO.
I can just about guarantee that she will go to her grave swearing that Casey is innocent. Other than Caylee, Cindy is gonna be the biggest casualty of Casey...for all the rest of her life. What are your thoughts in that regard?
Okay...that's my post quota for the next few days, and I'll insert my standard apology for length here --> Sorry! <-- :blowkiss: