Cher352
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Yes, I agree maybe CA thought it would help. When my BIL died my hubby wanted to contribute in some way but was not in shape to think of what to do, so I made some suggestions to him. I really think being involved with the process granted him some closure.
I think burying Caylee with her favorite jewelry or even a new engraved piece would be very healing for the GPs. But with GA maybe all it brought up were memories of happier times and was too much for him.
In addition; I wish someone would have suggested something like this to me when my Mother died. She was cremated and has a niche at the cemetery. It did not occur to me to put something in there with her urn and until they went to seal it up and I was asked if I had anything I wanted to add. Unfortunately the only thing I could do at that point was to add some flowers.