Hate to say it but yeah, people do.
My Mom had a little girl come to her door the other day asking if she had any "snacks" that she could share. She asked the girl if she was hungry (as opposed to just looking for candy or something) and the girl said yes, then had her slightly younger brother come to the door also asking for "snacks." My Mom asked if they were lost, alone, etc. and the kids said no, mom was asleep and they were locked out. Turned out to be 3 or 4 (my Mom wasn't sure, some seemed to be hiding) kids between ages 4 and 9 or 10, going door to door begging for food while 'mommy' took her 'nap.' After they talked for a bit my Mom figured out that the kids are normally locked outside on their own in a relatively busy neighborhood for 4-5 hours/day. It made me physically shake when my Mom told me this story and I thought of the horrible things that could happen to these children. My Mom called LE and they did come out so hopefully the kids are in a better situation... I really, really hope.
Related to Dylan's case I am not implicating the family or neighbors in any way whatsoever, just saying, as hard as it is for us to believe, yes there are families/parents who don't give a crap about their kids or their safety. I realize opinions vary on being protective vs. over-protective but IMO there's a definite area called "neglect."
Okay. The situation with Dylan was nothing like what is described above, I don't think.
I'm not sure where all of you live who think leaving a 13-year-old to his own devices is irresponsible--maybe you haven't said it directly, but that seems to be the message.
For those of us who live in rural areas--small towns, farming and ranching communities, etc.--the rules are probably a little more relaxed than if you live in the middle of a big city or busy suburbs. Our children would walk to their elementary school, and later the fishing pond, the property we owned that was not adjacent to our house, to friends' houses, to Grandma's, down to the ice cream shop, all over. I would venture to say that those of you who cannot imagine allowing your child to do such things did not raise them in a rural community where others besides the parents helped look out for kids.
Yes, we parents were and are aware of the dangers in the world, and didn't allow kids to run wild with no accountability (and for the record, I never locked my kids out of the house). But if I came home to find my 13-year-old son gone from the house, I certainly would not immediately think he was missing. And while it was a rule in our house to always leave a note, if you think that the rule is always followed, I have some prime beachfront property in Wyoming I'll sell ya.
Hadn't Dylan lived in the house that is now MR's? He may not have had friends really close by, but Dylan was not in an unfamiliar place, he knew his way around that area.
Of course, any conjecture about what happened Monday is moot if it isn't proven Dylan arrived at MR's Sunday night.