I do not get why people do not believe Elaine when she said Dylan did not want to visit his dad.
This is the same child who landed and texted mum with a unhappy frown face .
The same child who had made plans to spend the first night with friends instead of dad.
The same child who when was not allowed to visit that night made plans for 6.30am the following morning .
IMO Dylan could not want to get away from MR first thing.
None of these actions speak of Dylan wanting to spend time with dad !
MOO,IMHO
In my case it isn't a matter of not believing her as such, but keeping in mind that her interpretation of his feelings is probably tainted by her own feelings toward MR. I've done a fair bit of rereading MSM reports and watching clips in the past couple of days, because I have felt that in the past week or so our recollections of what we have read, then interpreted, and what are actual facts have been blurred. I don't recall ER stating that Dylan outright didn't want to visit MR. In the NG interview she kind of skirted around it, and said he was excited about seeing his friends again.
REDWINE: He texted me at about 7:06 on Sunday night and told me that he had landed and his dad had picked him up. He basically said --
I said, Did your dad get you, son? And he said, yes.
GRACE: What was his demeanor, Elaine?
REDWINE: You know, he was excited to go see his friends. He has friends in Bayfield, which is about -- oh, about 30 minutes away from Vallecito. So you know, he was really excited to go hang out with his friends in Bayfield.
I actually interpret the above BBM as ER having been the one to text Dylan first that evening. Later in the interview ER says that was the last she heard from Dylan (just after 7pm) but we now know from his friend R's phone, that Dylan was texting on and off for the next hour or so - as you would expect, texting mum was probably not his highest priority.
This exchange below also struck me as illustrating that not only did Dylan have a lot of freedom in his spare time, but that ER was again ultimately the one who initiated texts to touch base with him.
GRACE: So Elaine, let me get this straight. You`re telling me that it would be unusual for him to go to sleep at the end of the day, if he were spending the night somewhere else, and not say, Good night, I`m going to sleep?
REDWINE: Well, not necessarily going to sleep, but he would let me know where he landed for the night.
So like, if he was hanging around with his friends in Bayfield, you know, he would let me know what friend he was sleeping with that night or whatever the case may be.
You know, he often did stay up later, so he didn`t always text me, but he would always generally text me in the morning when he woke up.
GRACE: Now, you didn`t hear from him since he touched down 7:06 PM. You didn`t hear from him the next morning. What did you make of that at the time?
REDWINE:
You know, I didn`t really think anything of itjust because, you know,
when he`s been with his dad here before, which was over Labor Day weekend was the most recent since we`ve moved -- you know,
he kind of did his own thing as far as with his friends. And so
I would text him and be, like, you know, Are you having fun? And it wouldn`t be a prescribed time. It would just kind of be more throughout the day,
just me, you know, telling him I loved him and just kind of reaching out to him.
NG has a habit IMO of asking (bombarding) questions in a very leading way - presenting them as facts to be confirmed. So anyone would have to have their wits about them to keep their answers straight. IMO NG also jumps all over the place chronologically - in the transcript this is very evident and another thing that would keep her interviewees on their toes. Did I read somewhere she had been an attorney in a previous life? Anyhow I am only citing her interview because at least it has ER's actual words, not the paraphrased over and over again stuff from a lot of the print media.
Let's not forget that Dylan was originally expected to arrive on Saturday evening - IMO his plans to meet friends were likely to have been made earlier with that in mind. A day later I guess a typical 13yo would probably not see a problem with his dad picking him up for a planned visit and still taking him straight to his friend's place. I've been surprised that more people haven't agreed that MR wasn't being unreasonable to expect to spend some time with his son first.
Given that MR's mention of Dylan being very tired after staying up all night Saturday and not getting to bed until 4:00am on Sunday has not been contradicted by ER, and that she implied above that late nights for Dylan were not unusual - again I don't know why the idea that he may have been difficult to rouse early Monday morning is so hard to accept. An overtired teenager sleeping like a log during a holiday isn't so far fetched surely? Was he ticked off when he finally did wake up properly? I think he would have been - maybe even mad enough with dad to grab his gear and stomp on out of there.
One last quote from a couple of his friends:
“We asked (residents) about any sheds or barns where he could take shelter,” F said.
The boys said Dylan wasn’t shy about hitching rides.
“Honestly, I think he was walking into Bayfield and got taken away,” he said. W agreed. http://www.durangoherald.com/article/20121124/NEWS01/121129756/Mystery-lingers-over-missing-teen--