CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #20

[Kmonci]

You can't be serious!?! A court order isn't a suggestion that one can take or leave depending on which way the wind is blowing. Elaine could have faced fines, jail time or loss of custody if she refused to comply. She had only been awarded sole custody 2 months before. A judge would not have looked very favorably upon her flaunting his orders on the occasion of the very first visit.

It is downright cruel to suggest that she bears any blame simply because she didn't foresee Dylan's father "losing" him.

I am completely floored by a lot of what I read here that is directed at ER. She can't win for losing with some of this group. So, because she complied with the court order and allowed her sons father access to him, it's more her fault than his that something unforeseen happened to Dylan (either by his hand or someone totally unknown at this point)???? This makes as much sense as the extensive discussion of the totally irrelevant picture sleuthed from CR's Facebook, that was used as a springboard to criticize ER and CR for being "neglectful" by letting Dylan sit on the floorboard of a car that we don't even know was in motion. Jesus Christ who cares! That's not material to why Dylan disappeared! The suggestion that Dylan is voluntarily hiding out from his mother( who by all accounts he had a great relationship with) and beloved brother is ridiculous as well.IMO

 

[mmmagique]

BBM, is that similar to "that boy?"

Only if Jjenny is Caylee's parent.

It's also human nature to sometimes refer to a body as it or that rather than the name or she/her he/him, because what made them what they are is no longer in the body in question.

 

[Kmonci]

I thought CR was off limits!!!!

He is supposed to be, but apparently this site is friendlier to some victims than others.

 

[mijamawi]

you would ignore a judges orders and chance losing custody to the person you wanted to protect them from? Okayyyy

I would fight to prevent ncp from having that visitation. Surely as we all now know from the court documents, MR took a swing at Dylan. Would this not be enough to fight the court ordered visit, if one feared their child would be in danger visiting the person who took a swing at said child?

 

[momrids6]

I would fight to prevent ncp from having that visitation. Surely as we all now know from the court documents, MR took a swing at Dylan. Would this not be enough to fight the court ordered visit, if one feared their child would be in danger visiting the person who took a swing at said child?

Dylan took a swing at MR according to ER

 

[Flutterflies]

You know, at first we read that Dylan rarely spent time with his father, and then last night the FB page person discounted all of that and said all way just swell only until Mom decided to move. I tend to believe what came out first, jmo. I am not convinced that the FB page host knows more than the public, for the most part. I also do not understand why Mom's post was removed. If anyone should be allowed to voice her opinion, it is Mom, IMO.

Mom asked the admin to remove it. The admin says so on one post.

 

[mmmagique]

BBM, unless he was disappeared by someone who loves him and is hiding him, thinking he's better off than with his dad and doesn't know how to reappear him. JMO

There is absolutely nothing to suggest this. The people that love him, (his mother, his brother, his stepfather) were all together on Christmas, and took a picture of their holiday gathering, with mom holding a picture of Dylan and (I think) Corey.

This is a family devastated by loss, and they are obviously grieving their loss. (whether temporary or permanent.) No one in that group disappeared Dylan, and if someone else did, it was not something done out of love.

 

[mck16]

I thought CR was off limits!!!!

Should be, but there are posts about him beating up his dad. So, I don't know. If it is off limits, delete it. jmo

 

[Kmonci]

BBM, is that similar to "that boy?"[/]

Please enlighten us, what do you mean by this?

 

[DylansMom34]

The swing was taken at the child years ago. Do you honestly think that all these years after that event that, even if ER was afraid of what MR might do, do you think there was anything anywhere in her mind that could have prepared her for what may have actually happened last month??? IMO

 

[cluciano63]

I do believe that ER had no real reason to think Dylan would be in danger, but that does not mean she couldn't have her suspicions once he had vanished. How could any mother be expected to foresee that happening? If it ever does happen, the other parent is gone too.

 

[mmmagique]

I don't believe he's being held hostage.

I agree with you there. Unless a stranger took him. (but I don't think that's the case)

 

[Wild@Heart]

[/QUOTE] I have been wondering lately - would it hurt or help if perhaps Elaine took the time to sit down and meet with Mark?


What do you guys think?[/QUOTE]

I suggested that under the comment from the reporter from Colorado Springs the other day...I got banned from the Facebook page. I took that as a no way no how!:waitasec:

 

[Flutterflies]

Dylan took a swing at MR according to ER

I think it said son. It left me to wonder if it was Dylan or Cory. Either way, if true, it is unacceptable behavior. IMO

 

[cluciano63]

The question about Caylee came up as I had asked how many children were ever found after more than a month had passed. So far, she, and the Iowa girls are the only ones we can think of (not including those very few but well-known examples who were found alive.)I do not think anything harsh was meant in the reply, IMO.

 

[mck16]

The swing was taken at the child nearly 10 years ago. Do you honestly think that all these years after that event that, even if ER was afraid of what MR might do, do you think there was anything anywhere in her mind that could have prepared her for what may have actually happened last month??? IMO

10 years ago when DR was three. I don't think so. Do you have a link? And all this is what people are basing MR killing his child are based on. Really?

ty

 

[aust amateur slueth]

Absolutely!! First of all the NCP would have to complain, it would have to go to court, and we all know this takes time. In the meantime she could present her fears to the judge and most likely he would change the orders. ty

It doesn't work quite as simply as that.

For all we know ER may have presented her fears to the judge at that last hearing in November, Dylan may have presented his fears too (we know he made written statements).

Most likely a judge will stand by the orders they have made, the only time they would be likely to change their mind would be if there was some new compelling evidence against that decision and even then sometimes judges still go with their initial decision.

read up on 'parental alienation' its the catch cry of attorneys and lawyers throughout the world even if a parent tries to protect their child from the other parent with good reason.

 

[cluciano63]

I have been wondering lately - would it hurt or help if perhaps Elaine took the time to sit down and meet with Mark?


What do you guys think?[/QUOTE]

I suggested that under the comment from the reporter from Colorado Springs the other day...I got banned from the Facebook page. I took that as a no way no how!:waitasec:[/QUOTE]

What?? Banned? Good grief.

 

[DylansMom34]

10 years ago when DR was three. I don't think so. Do you have a link? And all this is what people are basing MR killing his child are based on. Really?

ty

Fixed it on my post. It wasn't 10 years but it was some time ago. Can't remember exactly, during the time they lived in the Denver area, mid to late 2000's... not looking for the link. It's on the one above from 9news. Posted a page or two ago.

 

[Seajay]

I thought CR was off limits!!!!

Everyone is off limits but MR. Everyone gets to have a field day on him.