Just clarifying, re my comments on Mark's statement - those who pointed out the self-oriented nature of his sentences hit the nail on the head.
Of course I was not suggesting he shouldn't use personal pronouns! What I was pointing out is that his words are incredibly focused on Mark himself and not his son. Me, me, me. It all comes across as very narcissistic and self-concerned (all that 'grouping' he does by including himself repeatedly in the 'many others', and all the 'myselfs'). Like what he's worried about is what people think of HIM.
Being that most of us (I presume) cannot physically get out and search for Dylan, discussion of what information is released is all we have! And that's what forums are for, no? Discussion? I am not annoyed a bit by the back and forth, and all the various analyses and opinions floating through threads like this. That's what the thread is for! If it starts to make me angry, I can always step away from the discussion...
Anyway, I think Mark shows enough bile toward his ex-wife to put him squarely on my radar as a possible perp. That it's mostly passive-aggressive might just be that it's in the public spotlight -- of course he can't be directly aggressive. But he HAS to get those slings in, doesn't he? Time after time.
His idyllic statements concerning his former relationship with Dylan and how close they used to be, combined with the fact Dylan vanished at his house, combined with the obvious bitterness he feels toward his ex-wife and the boys' attitudes toward him more recently (with the subtext: she turned them against him, I feel), combined with Dylan's not really wanting to be at his dad's (painful, but what reaction might that cause in a narcissist with an axe to grind??), combined with the incredibly self-interested statements he makes, combined with a failed poly (if indeed he failed it?), combined with the inconsistencies in Mark's statements -- all of it weighs up to me against the man as far as the likelihood of him being involved goes.
JMO.
Of course I was not suggesting he shouldn't use personal pronouns! What I was pointing out is that his words are incredibly focused on Mark himself and not his son. Me, me, me. It all comes across as very narcissistic and self-concerned (all that 'grouping' he does by including himself repeatedly in the 'many others', and all the 'myselfs'). Like what he's worried about is what people think of HIM.
Being that most of us (I presume) cannot physically get out and search for Dylan, discussion of what information is released is all we have! And that's what forums are for, no? Discussion? I am not annoyed a bit by the back and forth, and all the various analyses and opinions floating through threads like this. That's what the thread is for! If it starts to make me angry, I can always step away from the discussion...
Anyway, I think Mark shows enough bile toward his ex-wife to put him squarely on my radar as a possible perp. That it's mostly passive-aggressive might just be that it's in the public spotlight -- of course he can't be directly aggressive. But he HAS to get those slings in, doesn't he? Time after time.
His idyllic statements concerning his former relationship with Dylan and how close they used to be, combined with the fact Dylan vanished at his house, combined with the obvious bitterness he feels toward his ex-wife and the boys' attitudes toward him more recently (with the subtext: she turned them against him, I feel), combined with Dylan's not really wanting to be at his dad's (painful, but what reaction might that cause in a narcissist with an axe to grind??), combined with the incredibly self-interested statements he makes, combined with a failed poly (if indeed he failed it?), combined with the inconsistencies in Mark's statements -- all of it weighs up to me against the man as far as the likelihood of him being involved goes.
JMO.