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In most cases of a child "disappearing" where a parent, significant other or step-parent is suspected of being involved, there is almost always prior, documented involvement by Child Protective Services. This doesn't seem to be the case in Gannon's case, which is atypical, and note worthy.
An explanation may be since Gannon has only been living full time with his dad and SM for two years, it's possible that any resentment and abuse that may have been steadily increasing, hadn't reached a peak to be blatant enough to be reported by his school, a doctor or a neighbor. Even if there were some concerns at school, SM would be considered a respected, highly educated, intelligent person, and would likely be believed if any problems were noted, and needed explanations. That is pure speculation since there are no reports from his school, nor anyone else that I am aware of. I only mention it in case something becomes known later. But there are no CPS reports (which the media zero in on), no school documentation of suspected abuse, no reports of neighbors or Gannon's friends' parents reporting abuse or neglect, or any family members reporting abuse. These reports, if the exist, may not be made public at this time, but some usually find their way to the media. I don't read Social Media posts and perhaps I have missed some gossip, which I would choose to ignore regardless.
I have seen cases where both care givers were implicit with ongoing child abuse, which seems to be the most common pattern. I have seen cases where a care giver is innocent, but is in denial and he or she didn't realize that their child was in danger, despite red flags, or actual evidence, which never rings true. I have seen cases where a parent will cut off family relationships if one or more complain about abuse, or report a significant other to CPS. They are the parent who is being masterly manipulated by their significant other and have their head buried in the sand, and have chosen their need for a mate over their children's well being.
I'm not sure what family dynamics have transpired in the Stauch household before Gannon went missing, but I don't think AS would call LE, and cut his wife out of his life so quickly after seeing a blurry video, unless he knew in his heart that she was capable of harming his son. To me, that speaks volumes to her relationship to Gannon from a husband and father's perspective who knows her well.
We should be careful about making across-the-board statements about whether children will or will not report abuse.
I'm close to three girls who were abused by their step-grandfather over a period of years. They never told their parents to whom they were extremely close, never told anyone at school, not friends, not church people, not their grandmother...not anyone!
There are evil people who manipulate children in many ways.....sometimes by threatening them with worse treatment, sometimes by convincing them harm will come to their parents who also might not love them if they tell.
Know when these three girls told? Not when the step-grandfather died but when the dear grandmother died later, the one he swore wouldn't love them if they told on him.
All that to say Gannon may have been abused during his entire two years with the stepmother and CPS wouldn't have a clue. She seems to be one who could work a child until he was petrified and kept mum.
She's pretty hell-bent on convincing the world to think her way right now, isn't she?
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