I'm sure enemas can be and are used improperly. Many things can be. But I also suspect there are
thousands of parents who give enemas to their children and they don't have any sort of "fetish."
The Internet is filled with instructions from
reliable sources for giving enemas to children at home. Here are two examples. It's just not an odd thing to do. The implication that a parent isn't normal unless he/she is embarrassed to deal with a child's bowels doesn't help anyone. (And that was the implication from Dr. L in court I thought.)
Learn the correct way to give your child, who has been diagnosed with a colorectal condition, an enema at home. The experts at the International Center for Colorectal and Urogenital Care share how to make a home enema solution, when to give an enema to your child and more.
www.childrenscolorado.org
Find out what you need to know about pediatric enemas, and discover their risks, benefits, and how they may affect health.
www.webmd.com
We don't know what GS's bowel problems truly were except that he had them and they were fairly serious. They were also said to be related to his prematurity. Al testified he knew LS didn't like dealing with GS's bowel condition. But Al was gone alot and
apparently it was her job. I don't know that she "volunteered" either. But she was the children's caretaker when AS was gone. Who else could have acted? She may have misused enemas-- we really don't know-- but the fact that she gave enemas at all is just not that unusual IMO.
<modsnip - off topic> I would not think that the need for an enema for a chronic childhood condition would typically involve going to the ER. (While the above links as well as others do point out the need for the parent to master the proper procedure, those sources don't suggest going to the ER either.) Any child or adult could at times require emergency care but an ER or even a doctor's office aren't typically needed to administer an enema.
JMO