Yes, indeed. They are very interesting. This might explain quite a lot of the parents' bizarre behavior and the aunt's silence. Similar thoughts have been advanced on the facebook page previously and have been rapidly quashed with extreme prejudice by the admins. MR's comments may not be there for long.
I'm more hopeful than I've ever been previously that Joe is alive and deliberately re-establishing himself far away from what may have been, for him, an untenably painful family and community situation.
This would be a wonderful scenario if he left on his own, and is alive.
The problem I personally have with that, or with Joe, is if he left on his own, he is causing pain to his family.
Why not be honest and tell authorities he is safe but he doesn't want to go back home.
There may be a problem still, but at least the family and community would know he is alive.
When people leave and don't tell people that they are ok, they worry, and it is emotionally painful.
My grandfather went MISSING.
NOBODY knew what happened to him or where he was.
He left. He died ten years later.
He was ALIVE for TEN YEARS but told NO ONE!!!!!
I was able to find his death certificate, 60 years later, SIXTY YEARS!!!!! We then knew what happened to him.
The death certificate was in a DIFFERENT STATE.
So, you know, people DO LEAVE and DON'T TELL ANYONE.
It is SAD but it happens.
I hope if it happened to Joe, if he left on his own, he would STOP this, and at least tell his family
that he is alive. STOP THIS IMMEDIATE PAIN. The Pain can last for years if no one knows what happened to him.
And I will add that the pain I am sure continues even if they would know what happened, but if they knew he was alive,
that would be a blessing.
And as I have mentioned before, he could have left on his own, but something happened to him. Perhaps
he is not alive.
I don't feel he was kidnapped.
IMOO.