THis was a good article:
Granting freedoms to tweens' no easy task
Disappearance of 12-year-old Greeley girl sheds light on safety, setting boundaries
By Jakob Rodgers
As a habit, Carmen Bustillos keeps a close eye on her 10-year-old daughter, Ilse Montes. She doesn't leave her home alone, and there's parameters about where she can play in her neighborhood.
But when word spread of the disappearance of Kayleah Wilson, 12, Ilse couldn't sleep. She lay awake in her bed, wondered if the news was true and asked her mother a steady stream of questions.
Truth be told, however, Bustillos' nerves weren't doing much better.
I don't think I would allow her to go beyond the block, Bustillos said, adding she will drive her child more often. It's just my fears are heightened.
The investigation into Kayleah's disappearance, which continued on Saturday with law enforcement officers conducting ground searches in wooded areas in Greeley and ponds in west Greeley, has naturally summoned questions about how much freedom tweens children in the range of 11-12 years old should be afforded.
http://www.greeleytribune.com/article/20100404/NEWS/100409826/1002&parentprofile=1001