@isalybra
I want to say I'm sorry for your loss. You've probably heard that a million times lately, and it doesn't heal your pain. But I hope you'll find peace and healing soon. Everyone suffering from the loss of this family is in my prayers and the prayers of many others.
Your presence here at WS is appreciated, as those of us who only know of the family through pictures and print try to make sense out of the senseless. I hope that you can find some healing in being able to talk things through here.
I'm sorry if you've seen anything here that seems to be disparaging your friend. I'm NOT BEING SNARKY here, I promise! But there is an "ignore" button you can press if there are posters you don't want to see. I'm not trying to be rude to anyone on here, but if something being posted is causing you pain, I want you to know that there is an option to ignore it. I only mention this because you said you are unfamiliar with WS.
Again, thank you for talking to us, and I hope it helps you too.