Why would debt be more of a stress to CW than to SW? Shan'ann's earnings from selling her own prior home enabled them to buy in Frederick, her whole nest egg was invested. What monies did he contribute? I sure would not have been able to deal with a serious illness, care for 2 very small kids, a pregnancy, running a household and having a home business all at once. Yet, she did all that with a smile and energy.
Something had to change because of "health bills for Shan'ann and the girls; the image of a rich lifestyle to promote her business; the constant videos and trips." Really? Maybe the change could have been his getting a part time job to help out the family? But he chose spending money and time on another woman instead. She took a lot of home and business videos, yes, working at home, when did all the "constant trips" take place? The image of a "rich lifestyle" contributed to her making as much if not more than he did, while working at home. So why would her earning a lot be a stress, or maybe you are suggesting a stress to his ego?
I saw nothing to suggest that CW thought there was no flight delay and that contributed to his "anger at Shan'ann", remember that lie was fed to him AFTER he murdered the family.
Many months ago, I researched their home purchase in CO. There was very little money put down as a down payment. The loan, I believe, was approved in Chris' name only.
They also had a court case pending due to lack of HOA payments. IIRC, Chris had to withdraw $10,000 from his 401K to pay off back mortgage and other bills.
As far as Shan'ann's flight, I read somewhere that Chris actually called the airlines to find out the status of the flight.
I had to laugh at the second job suggestion. That's what my husband's overspending ex-wife suggested to him. She refused to curb her spending or get a job. Instead, she told him that he didn't make enough money; and, then, she told him that he needed to get a second job.
My husband took all of their debt and gave her the home and all of the furnishings, plus alimony and child support. I didn't just blame her for overspending. I also blamed my husband for allowing it.
The overspending was a family problem, re: Watts. Please don't think that I am attributing it all to Shan'ann. They both needed to work on a budget and live within their means. If it meant her getting a different job or Chris getting a different job, they needed to agree on those things.
I also saw the inside of Shan'ann's home that she sold in NC. She left behind almost all of her expensive furnishings. The buyer said that it wasn't negotiated in the deal. I don't understand why all of these things would just be left behind.
Finally, I, in no way, support anything that Chris did with his paramour. The entire situation is sickening.