Such heartbreaking news. My heart goes out to the family and loved ones of this beautiful young woman and her 3 precious children.
I do want to say something about the interview with the killer. I had the liberty to watch the video after I already knew he had confessed to the murders, so it was easy for me to see he was lying and difficult to know for sure how I would have felt had I not known. Of course, I feel strongly I would have been suspicious, to say the least.
That said, I do think it is important to give victims the benefit of the doubt before jumping to conclusions. In cases like this, I believe it is always safe to assume that the authorities are doing their jobs. I just think back to innocent people who have been maligned in the media. Mark Lunsford comes to mind. The father of Riley Fox. Richard Jewell is another example as well as the entire Duke LaCross team. It is very tricky to expect people to act a particular way and show particular emotions while on camera and in a stressful situation. I recall people saying Mark Lunsford seemed guilty because he didn't show emotion.
And to the friend that did jump to conclusions - good on you! I am sure she was privy to far more information about the relationship than any of us. God bless her heart for doing her best to protect her friend and her babies. I hope she knows that there are so many people thinking of her right now and wrapping our hearts around her right now. I hope she can find some comfort in knowing that they will have justice because of her.