nyvictoria
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All JMO…It's gross when a father presses a child to call a mother he knows can't answer.
How do you unpack that? Ever?
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You don’t unpack it. You leave it right there and pretend it doesn’t exist.
The girls want to believe Barry is innocent. Once he’s convicted, they may have to believe he was wrongfully convicted. Even if they eventually come to understand that it’s more likely than not that Barry did it, they kind of have to ignore that reality for their own sanity.
He’ll do everything he can to poison them against the Moormans and put a big old roadblock on that avenue of support, if there isn’t one there already. He wants to be the only person they believe and listen to.
If Barry has even the tiniest shred of decency in him (he doesn’t), he’ll be honest with them so they can try to heal. They just might surprise him and continue to stand by him because they love him. That’s not an option for Barry because he doesn’t love with mutual respect and caring. His idea of love is ownership.
There’s no winning outcome for the girls. Their mother, who nurtured them and guided them and loved them unconditionally, is gone. They parent they have left is too wrapped up in his ego to help them.