Still Missing CO - Suzanne Morphew, 49, Chaffee Co, 10 May 2020 *arrest* #98

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IMO, the motions to which these orders respond are due diligence on the part of the defense, which seeks to know as much as it can about prospective jurors and the jurors who are actually seated. I have no doubt they will do their own investigation, but with 1,000 potential jurors they'd have a gigantic task.

They will use the information to question prospective jurors during voir dire, of course, and when necessary to ask the judge to dismiss a juror for cause. If they are using a jury consultant, the information will be used to give the attorneys the consultant's sense whether they should use one of the defense's limited number of "peremptory strikes" to excuse a juror without cause.

I am not an attorney. But both my parents were litigators in Colorado. My dad is, still. My brother is a deputy district attorney in Colorado. My grandfather and uncle are trial attorneys (granddad is retired). I received an informal legal education at the dinner table, at family gatherings, at parties, nearly every day growing up. My family is very social, and I naturally acquired an extended network of friends with whom I remain in active contact, that includes attorneys on both sides; judges; elected officials; investigators private and public; forensic experts; and victim advocates. Although I chose a different career path than my parents did, I have a natural affinity for law and lawyers and a fascination with the justice system in the United States.

All that doesn't make me a lawyer, so I value the comments of our WS attorneys and you all should, too. Reserving the right to disagree, of course.;)
 
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Oh, not a good show for facts about a case! The show, mainly her routine guests, get facts wrong often. IMO I like how she speaks from a criminal prosecutor side. Her style can definitely be rough. lol
Grace decided to go to law school after her fiancé was murdered, so I think her angry energy is quite authentic. It appears she has a history of getting "carried away" though. Here's an excerpt from her bio on Wikipedia (for which the usual caveats apply):

"While a prosecutor, Grace was reprimanded by the Supreme Court of Georgia for withholding evidence and for making improper statements in a 1997 arson and murder case. The court overturned the conviction in that case and found that Grace's behavior 'demonstrated her disregard of the notions of due process and fairness and was inexcusable.' As well, a 2005 federal appeals opinion by Judge William H. Pryor, Jr. found that Grace 'played fast and loose' with core ethical rules in a 1990 triple murder case, including the withholding of evidence and allowing a police detective to testify falsely under oath. The 1990 murder conviction was upheld despite Grace's prosecutorial misconduct."

It's fine if you like NG as an entertainer, which is what she has become. But if you're after the truth, your time could be better spent elsewhere IMO.
 
Grace decided to go to law school after her fiancé was murdered, so I think her angry energy is quite authentic. It appears she has a history of getting "carried away" though. Here's an excerpt from her bio on Wikipedia (for which the usual caveats apply):

"While a prosecutor, Grace was reprimanded by the Supreme Court of Georgia for withholding evidence and for making improper statements in a 1997 arson and murder case. The court overturned the conviction in that case and found that Grace's behavior 'demonstrated her disregard of the notions of due process and fairness and was inexcusable.' As well, a 2005 federal appeals opinion by Judge William H. Pryor, Jr. found that Grace 'played fast and loose' with core ethical rules in a 1990 triple murder case, including the withholding of evidence and allowing a police detective to testify falsely under oath. The 1990 murder conviction was upheld despite Grace's prosecutorial misconduct."

It's fine if you like NG as an entertainer, which is what she has become. But if you're after the truth, your time could be better spent elsewhere IMO.
Agree. Her history speaks for itself as does her pontifications. That said you do get her side of an ongoing case and you always hear her opinion lol.
 
We are in Michigan
Hubby is home now -- he was AFib but his heart is now regulated and he is on meds and diet*

I was surprised to see it in the ER restrooms but was happy they are providing this resource for victims.

Then hubby told me they checked everywhere, and I mean, Everywhere on his body for signs of abuse and bruises, welts, etc.

Then the nurse came in and she said they go to seminars, etc and are trained on where to look on body other than the obvious and also--- HOW TO OBSERVE the significant other, spouse, BF, GF, or whoever comes into hospital with patient as she was telling me verbal clues they watch out for also.

Her (the nurse) mom is an advocate for victims of child abuse, domestic/spousal abuse in another county about 2 hours away.

I would love to have their trainer speak in public for non-medical people to be able to tell signs of abuse also-
Not just signs/ marks/bruises ON a person, but the verbal and non-verbal signs that the abuser /abused can give.
They also can pick up on sex traffickers/ the verbal and physical actions/reactions to watch for by trained medical personnel.
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My notions which follow are not FLASH precedence: <MILPERS jargon; After thanking a vet for service, ask her/him wt-t-hl "FLASH" means. Imo, sound fundamental awareness for all>

I base them on what I've learned from you since joining WS.
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Barely a week goes by when we do not learn of a peace officer - usually w/ a young family because these tasks are radio dispatched to the "freshest" acquisitions to the force - losing their life/lives trying to restore "peace" to a "domestic disturbance".

Here is the quandary: Providing red labels and pens for lab specimens, and virtual cavity searches for evidence of abuse ico hospital admissions, is laudably proactive and innovative for certain. But it's the inexorable flow of events thereafter that may prove perilous ...
e..g.
... when a reported-upon, apparent abuser is asked to"drop by for a chat" with a social worker or other third party, THE REPORTING VICTIM BETTER ALREADY BE SEATED 'ON THE PROVERBIAL NEXT BUS TO OSHKOSH.

In a nutshell, I see all of these DV scenarios as too late to remedy. - essentially
OBE [overtaken by events]. Waiting/praying/hoping for matters to return to:
Early visions of your future with this 'one-and-only' mate who - wonder-of-wonders you may then believe - finds you the 'perfect partner'...
... well, I think that's gonzo.
Grab the children, just a single travel case - keeping the other hand free for your "now-don't-let-go-'til we've got our seats"- child-chain,
and boogey!

Aside: I have some thoughts wrt clergy involvement in addressing DV ico members of their congregation or fellowship,
but I've made my principle point as to the perils of the DV victim's humbling disclosure. That's enough.
 
He’s accessing the device each time on the 5th of the month. And SM texted, “I’m done. I could not care less what you’re doing or have been doing. I just want to handle this civilly” on the day after that 5/5/2020 access. And the PE guys emphasized “5” and also that something was going on on the dark web.

Is he using the device to view or access something on the dark web that releases new material the 5th of every month?

ETA: that second date, 8/5/2020 would have been the Morphew’s 26th wedding anniversary and it is the first time BM uses the device since SM disappeared.
I'd forgotten all about the '5' reference! This has went on for so long I'll have to refresh my memory
 
I so wish that when Suzanne had finally made up her mind to leave, that she hadn't said anything to Barry about it. If only she had waited until she could take another interstate trip, then contacted him and said she wasn't coming back. The daughters may have disapproved and been estranged for a while, but would have probably come round. But Suzanne didn't realise the caution that was needed, and who can blame her. If only, the saddest words.
 
I so wish that when Suzanne had finally made up her mind to leave, that she hadn't said anything to Barry about it. If only she had waited until she could take another interstate trip, then contacted him and said she wasn't coming back. The daughters may have disapproved and been estranged for a while, but would have probably come round. But Suzanne didn't realise the caution that was needed, and who can blame her. If only, the saddest words.

So true
 
I so wish that when Suzanne had finally made up her mind to leave, that she hadn't said anything to Barry about it. If only she had waited until she could take another interstate trip, then contacted him and said she wasn't coming back. The daughters may have disapproved and been estranged for a while, but would have probably come round. But Suzanne didn't realise the caution that was needed, and who can blame her. If only, the saddest words.
Yes, if only. I wish someone would have come to stay with her to be of moral support to her as she tried to leave him. She desperately needed help, and not the JL kind of help.
 
Suzanne trusted Barry would pay her back the money that was hers so she could make it on her own. That was a major flaw in her thinking. Whatever cash she could lay her desperate little hands on, she should have grabbed all of it and headed to FL within a week of him putting the gun to his head.

Suzanne did not have a strong support system because, with evil intentions and cruel purposes, BM isolated her in a tiny Colorado town. Inexplicably, he could turn a daughter against her on a whim. She said living with him became more difficult after the move. She carefully walked on eggshells so as not to upset him just as he'd trained her to do. By design, he was instilling fear in her; thereby, causing her to doubt her own thoughts, her sanity. His erratic behavior clouded her judgment. She thought the deer's eyes held spy cameras within her own home. He didn't want her in his garage. What an inhumane control freak he became! He planned it to be this way.

Nothing would bring back the hour of splendor in the grass, glory in the flower for her with Barry. He crippled her as an albatross around her neck slowly choking the very life out of her. He'd eroded her self confidence and damaged her self worth. He robbed her of happiness and stole her peace.

For these reasons, I am thankful Suzanne had magical moments from time spent with JL who made her feel loved, valued, treasured and worthy. Many may detest his every fiber but not me. I recognize the priceless gifts he gave Suzanne during her last months by inspiring hope and determination within herself. I wish he could have saved her from the monster who lived in her home without destroying his own.

I think JL enjoys his lakeside home and loves his talented children very much. I pray his family has found healing and restoration in ways that surpass our own understanding.
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I so wish that when Suzanne had finally made up her mind to leave, that she hadn't said anything to Barry about it. If only she had waited until she could take another interstate trip, then contacted him and said she wasn't coming back. The daughters may have disapproved and been estranged for a while, but would have probably come round. But Suzanne didn't realise the caution that was needed, and who can blame her. If only, the saddest words.
But...
... how much self-control is humanly possible for one in Suzanne's circumstances?!
  • There she was - May 6th, 2020 - at the neighbor's house, momentarily safe and secure, chatting over coffee;
  • anecdote/advice follows anecdote/advice, running on-and-on;
  • stone upon stone upon stone, now recalling her burdened marital experience;
  • commiserating; sympathizing; deliberating;
  • So much of her life has passed,
  • gone, forever
  • irretrievable...
And at that hundred-year-flood moment, when a weakened levee breaches, an angered - no enraged - Suzanne is to prudently consider:
  • "I wonder how this will affect Barry if he learns right this very moment that 'I'm done!' " ?!?
Just me, but were I she, I couldn't have stopped myself. No.

Were I sitting across from her, would I have been cool and composed enough to persuade Suzanne to hold on? Encore, non.
 
So does anybody think the defense team will be so good at their jobs that they get Barry off?
If you take those of us on this site, and others, as a facsimile of a large jury pool; it appears that nearly everyone believes Barry to be guilty.

Recent Colorado juries have found criminals guilty of murder, even in cases without a body. It’s possible that the jury will be turned off by the defense antics.
 
So does anybody think the defense team will be so good at their jobs that they get Barry off?

Nope. But I hope they literally drain every last dollar from his bank account, trying.
The irony of him losing all that money on a murder defense, compared to only losing half of it (more or less) if he just filed for divorce, brings me great satisfaction.

He deserves to be broke, alone, and in a cage.

jmo
 
So does anybody think the defense team will be so good at their jobs that they get Barry off?
Sure it is possible. I have thought that since the AA was released and it was affirmed when they couldn’t convince a judge of proof positive presumption great. It is anyone’s guess in my opinion if they can convince 12 jurors. It isn’t often we get to watch a case like this that is entirely circumstantial and no body to determine how, when and where she was murdered. They also have other charges that have barely been touched upon. So yes sure he theoretically could be found not guilty. It is the risk prosecution took.
 
Suzanne trusted Barry would pay her back the money that was hers so she could make it on her own. That was a major flaw in her thinking. Whatever cash she could lay her desperate little hands on, she should have grabbed all of it and headed to FL within a week of him putting the gun to his head.

Suzanne did not have a strong support system because, with evil intentions and cruel purposes, BM isolated her in a tiny Colorado town. Inexplicably, he could turn a daughter against her on a whim. She said living with him became more difficult after the move. She carefully walked on eggshells so as not to upset him just as he'd trained her to do. By design, he was instilling fear in her; thereby, causing her to doubt her own thoughts, her sanity. His erratic behavior clouded her judgment. She thought the deer's eyes held spy cameras within her own home. He didn't want her in his garage. What an inhumane control freak he became! He planned it to be this way.

Nothing would bring back the hour of splendor in the grass, glory in the flower for her with Barry. He crippled her as an albatross around her neck slowly choking the very life out of her. He'd eroded her self confidence and damaged her self worth. He robbed her of happiness and stole her peace.

For these reasons, I am thankful Suzanne had magical moments from time spent with JL who made her feel loved, valued, treasured and worthy. Many may detest his every fiber but not me. I recognize the priceless gifts he gave Suzanne during her last months by inspiring hope and determination within herself. I wish he could have saved her from the monster who lived in her home without destroying his own.

I think JL enjoys his lakeside home and loves his talented children very much. I pray his family has found healing and restoration in ways that surpass our own understanding.
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Not only was SM isolated in CO.....even when her closest friend SO came to visit...Barry was spying on them. The level of extremes at control that he employed against his wife was, and is chilling.
 
Nope. But I hope they literally drain every last dollar from his bank account, trying.
The irony of him losing all that money on a murder defense, compared to only losing half of it (more or less) if he just filed for divorce, brings me great satisfaction.

He deserves to be broke, alone, and in a cage.

jmo
BM is completely disinheriting the daughters he claims to love so dearly. His willingness to squander his ill-gotten gains on his lawyers to save his hide, at the expense of his heirs, speaks for itself.
 
BM is completely disinheriting the daughters he claims to love so dearly. His willingness to squander his ill-gotten gains on his lawyers to save his hide, at the expense of his heirs, speaks for itself.
My father always told "us kids" don't expect an inheritance "our job" was to raise you and then you stand on your own two feet -- although we know there will be one eventually of a tbd amount. It is possible their kids would prefer their dad to money at this point in their lives. No parent is obligated to leave money to their children although it seems to be an expectation these days perhaps because of the "greatest generation" transfer of wealth. I can't speculate about what they are thinking. I don't walk in their shoes literally or figuratively.
 
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