Alright Raven--
I'm writing this to plead with you--give Kaiden to the Christiansens. If you are not giving him the attention that he deserves to have from his own father and if he is in daycare all day while you put in your 10 hours a week in at work and play the rest, while Kaiden goes home only to have your mother take care of him, let the Christiansens have him. Let him be in an environment with cousins and family that he can interact with all of the time. That the person he runs to if he falls down isn't a caregiver but a family member.
I pity you Raven, I pity you that you have no feelings. I pity you because you think that putting Kaiden in daycare just to get him out of your hair (thinning as it may be) is a good idea. I pity you because while Janet could have been at home with her baby getting a few more moments in with her sweet son, you created the situation that caused her to work out of the home. I pity you because you have no remorse for what you have done to your family. I pity you because you actually believe that you aren't the reason why all of this happened.
Believe me, I could go on and on. But why don't you for the first time in your life, do the wise and right thing and let the Christiansens have Kaiden?
JF