I don't know Cindy Anthony, I have watched everything I can on this case, read documents, I see what everyone sees, I know this woman has made so many mistakes, but wow, this woman is picked apart so unfairly so often, I can't help but speak my opinions.
I believe Cindy was upset and scared for George, otherwise, she would have left him go off and do whatever it is he was planning on doing. She She stated once before "I don't want to lose my husband over this." That has always stuck with me. People speculated he was going to leave, I believe Cindy knew then what the real loss of her husband would have been and we got a glimpse of that when he was found in that hotel room.
Now we got Cindy as the bad guy again because her attorney called LE. He made several calls, the only call that was PUBLIC was the 911 call. How nice that we got to be privvy to that call. I agree with Florida regarding the Sunshine Law it stinks royal dung.
People are speculating on her state of mind by how she sounded while her attorney was on the phone. Her granddaughter was murdered, she's trying to plan the funeral for her granddaughter who she loved more than anything or anyone, including her daughter, whom she always loves and whom she HAS THE RIGHT TO LOVE, her husband has been missing since 8:30 and I wouldn't doubt she's on medication.
Do people honestly believe it right she would have had to bury her granddaughter alone without her husband?
This woman has been through a traumatic and trying time for months PRIOR to Caylee's disappearance.
But yet, people know how she was just fine & dandy during that 911 call when George was missing after everything that had transpired prior to Caylee's disappearance up to the night George went missing.
Cindy was grateful and happy George was okay and it's natural to get pissed and be angered by what he put her through after she knew he was safe. There is nothing wrong with that. I'm pissed he did this to her. Of course, once again, leaving Cindy to take care of everything.
She's going through menopause, she's hormonal, something I have seen many people complain about and make excuses about when they get a little testy over LITTLE things. She's had to work to save their home, deal with her daughter, deal with her husband's lack of work, his issues with losing money, and I'm sure there is a LOT more than that at play here.
I would have henpecked George myself, I guarantee you.
Why is Cindy the bad guy? Because she doesn't act the way You or I think she should act? Because she has a dysfunctional family? Because her daughter killed the one person she loved most and that's Caylee.
Why is she the villain? Casey killed Caylee.
Casey, no matter what anyone thinks of her is probably going to get the death penalty. It's still Cindy & George's daughter. They have a right to love her. George taking an easy way out and leaving Cindy to deal with everything, is not right.
If you or I do any of the same things Cindy has done prior to Caylee's disappearance it would have been considered "taking care of business" "being the matriarch". I've said it myself and I have heard my friends say, well if I don't do it, who will....
Cindy has taken care of George, taken care of the home, taken care of Casey and her screws up if and he's going to take his life and leave her.
What if every single time George has screwed up, lost money, he has played the nobody needs me, I'm not good enough, you are all better off without me card. How much can this woman take?
It's as though everyone WISHES it was Cindy there in that motel, and if it was they would say she was doing it to hide something.
Now for the "not rushing to the hospital" which I have seen countless comments on over and over again.
It's 2:00 am, she spent all day worrying about where her husband is, him, I'd be exhausted. I bet she wanted to go, but he's in a safe place.
I can guarantee you that her attorney, the hospital all told her George is NOT allowed visitors, period. But I guess she should have gone to the hospital to sit in the parking lot until he's allowed visitors. That's unrealistic and UNFAIR.
I've heard people talk about her weight, how terrible she looks, yet if she looks decent, then she has no feelings, and is doing fantastic. I don't get it.
I know for a fact I am not perfect, but I cannot get over how many people from all over know how they would handle things, when they have NEVER walked in these people's shoes.
Having 20/20 hindsight is a gift, I wish they could use it on me and my friends. I know more people that can't figure out how to handle tiny little crisis's like cleaning their home, or what to cook for dinner or how to deal with a coworker, or how to get their child to take out the trash.
I figure if people can figure exactly how this family should act at every aspect of their lives they can help me figure out some of my issues!
JMO