My thoughts on this? The judge will handle it, this side show does nothing to bring Lisa home.
We don't agree often, but agree 100% on this.
My thoughts on this? The judge will handle it, this side show does nothing to bring Lisa home.
It's not acceptable, but do you have any proof that she's a raging alcoholic? That this kind of thing happens on a frequent basis, where the kids are being neglected all the time? If you got some proof that DB was known to buy and drink wine multiple times during the week while she was watching the children, then you got a case (pretty strong one).
It's not acceptable, but it does happen in isolated incidents. If we start taking away kids for every indiscretion that we deem as 'neglect' then there are going to be a ton of kids either a) in foster homes or b) with non-custodial parents.
I do believe that DB herself said she does it 2-3 times a week. You do not need to be an alcoholic to neglect your children. Frankly, just once is too many times. I worked in the DFCS system and I understand that opening a case file and the removal of children are two different things. Just this one incident is enough (IMO) to open a case file, look into the parenting of these children, get school records and find out whether these people are providing a safe nuturing enviornment to the children. Sometimes it only takes once to harm a child.
DB did not just "take a night off". Taking a night off is leaving another responsible party to care for your children. DB left three minor children without care, one an infant who she failed to protect by her actions. As a parent, you don't get to do that. IMO, that is called neglect and there are provisions in MO law to remedy that.
They have answered those questions to LE, they are just refusing to continue to do so. I believe you're right though that they will have to show that they are a safe home environment.While I'm not sure I agree with the Mom causing more of an uproar in this young boy's life at this time, wouldn't the hearing at least require JI and perhaps DB to answer some questions about what happened that night? Questions that they have yet to answer to LE. Separately.
Isn't this something like the Kyron Horman situation where the mother has not fought for custody of her daughter for fear of incriminating herself in the case regarding Kyron?
So maybe some good will come out of a custody hearing anyway? If JI is totally innocent, I doubt he'd be willing to not show up and answer questions. And if he plans on continuing to have DB as the caregiver for his son, wouldn't she have to show up and answer some questions too? And can the judge force them to do this separately?
MOO
bbm = No she didn't. She didn't leave the children at all. No one can say if she was or was not capable of dealing with whatever happened to her children...except of course if she was sleeping and someone took her child, which could have happened if she had one glass of wine or 50 imo
BBM No it doesn't. What it does = is a parent who cannot drive a child to the hospital in the case of an emergency. A parent who has no idea of her child lay in a feces filled diaper all night. A parent who cannot be responsible for the welfare of two little boys. A parent who is so drunk that they fail to protect (if it was an abduction) their baby. Since she admits a black-out drunk...there is no way for her or us to know what she might do to her children. That is why you never leave minor children unprotected in the sole care of a person over the legal limit of consumption or in the care of one who admits to her drinking to the point of blackout drunk. For the life of me I cannot figure out why it is acceptable for some in our society to be so drunk you cannot care for your children.
Being black out drunk is the equivalent of leaving children by themselves. She was incapable of caring for them in an emergency. That is neglectful no matter how you spin it. Moo.
She didn't admit to a black out - she said it was a possibility. Once her head hit the pillow and she passed out, whether from alcohol or exhaustion she had no control over someone entering her home and taking Lisa. There are millions of people who do not have a license or vehicle and could not take their child to hospital regardless of drinking. If a child is uncomfortable sleeping in a dirty diaper, chances are they will wake up crying - no one can say whether, if this could have happened, Deb wouldn't have heard her. Trust me when I tell you that a drunk parent can and does take care of their children when necessary. No one said she couldn't take care of her children, ever.
She didn't admit to a black out - she said it was a possibility. Once her head hit the pillow and she passed out, whether from alcohol or exhaustion she had no control over someone entering her home and taking Lisa. There are millions of people who do not have a license or vehicle and could not take their child to hospital regardless of drinking. If a child is uncomfortable sleeping in a dirty diaper, chances are they will wake up crying - no one can say whether, if this could have happened, Deb wouldn't have heard her. Trust me when I tell you that a drunk parent can and does take care of their children when necessary. No one said she couldn't take care of her children, ever.
bbm = No she didn't. She didn't leave the children at all. No one can say if she was or was not capable of dealing with whatever happened to her children...except of course if she was sleeping and someone took her child, which could have happened if she had one glass of wine or 50 imo
She may not have felt 'black out drunk' at all. And being drunk def. is not the same as leaving the child alone. We don't know that she couldn't care for them in an emergency. Being sound asleep is the equivalent of leaving children by themselves? No. We won't ever know if in fact, Lisa had woken up crying to be changed or fed, that Deb wouldn't have heard her, except someone took her before that happened...imo
DB calls them "My Boys." Check any early October 5th through October 8th Videos. She also refers to them as "our boys."Well they aren't step brothers, their parents are dating. I never referred to kids of my dad's girlfriends as my step siblings. Granted we didn't live with our dad and sometimes the girlfriends kids would be visiting their dad on weekends when we were visiting our dad. We loved them, but they still weren't our step siblings or ever referred to as such.
It probably really depends on how JI & DB refer to the kids to each other.
Exactly; If a child requires a visit to an emergency room it would be neglectful to NOT call 911 and have EMTs care for the child on the way to the hospital. What is the sense of a parent driving a sick/injured child to an emergency room? They can't drive and give proper medical care at the same time. That is neglectful to the parents and to the other drivers on the road. IMHO
Here's a short article that quotes the mom (not recent article). She states she hasn't seen her son for years. So, she lost custody and she hasn't seen him for years. Something tells me she has issues. I'm not jumping on the "I hope she gets custody" bandwagon.
http://www.nbcactionnews.com/dpp/ne...f-one-of-lisa-irwins-half-brothers-speaks-out