Okay, so they didn't move more quickly than protocol. It changes little to me. The family began seeking help before the 5 days. I don't get the impatience in this case on the part of people not related to this heartbroken family. Walk a mile. See how you react if it's your little girl. Five days may just not be enough for you to accept that the child you assured everything would be okay, the child that was breathing, talking, living, scared, just days before, is now suddenly gone forever, despite the fact that her body remains warm and she looks like she's sleeping. What stake do any of us have in this? It's like this angry determination that they accept this death and move on. Walk a mile.
It is an awful situation, to be sure. Awful for everyone-- family, hospital, staff, and court personnel. I don't perceive anger on the part of those who call for acceptance-- I sense extreme pity, sadness, and frustration-- even bewilderment that the family could be in such prolonged denial.
I agree that this family needs a lot of time and professional support, and for that reason, they should have some comfort and privacy with Jahi. I think it's time that she be moved out of the ICU, and considered to be "terminal", as in DNR status. She can remain on a ventilator with palliative care (suctioning, turning, physical care) in another part of the hospital (a regular floor) as she completes her dying process. That would give her and the family privacy and dignity. The environment would be so much more peaceful and supportive, compared to the ICU environment. (I wonder if they have a palliative care unit at that hospital? Anyone know?)
I don't think there is any justification to continue extreme measures, such as intracranial pressure monitoring, BP and heart meds, etc, unless the family signals that they are considering organ donation, AND she is still a candidate for some solid organs (which I doubt). I highly doubt they will consider organ donation at this point. She has probably multiple sites of IV access, so a feeding tube isn't necessary. There is a good chance she is already having a lot of heart rhythm and BP drugs administered. It will take her longer to die with IV fluids and ventilation, but surely she will still die.
Unfortunately, in their grief and anger, I think the family would not perceive moving her to a regular room to be a good thing-- I think they would view it as abandonment and more "poor" treatment. I don't think there is any "win" situation to be had here-- for the family, or the hospital.
I have a very hard time with 2+ weeks of ICU care for a brain dead patient-- the cost, and the loss of a bed and resources for another child. Since the first determinations of brain death, she has had about $500K worth of care, at least. Money shouldn't drive every decision, but when we are talking about ICU resources, it should come into the discussion when the patient has been brain dead 2+ weeks. Ethically, I don't think it's right for her to remain in the ICU at this point. JMO.