Can I just mention about CHO using the term "the body" and "the deceased"? Drs, RNs, and in fact all medical folks are trained to use the 'proper' terminology when talking about a patient and their body.
For instance, I would not use the term "hoo-haw" to describe a vagina...not as an RN. As me, sure...but not professionally. I wouldn't use the term "ticker" to refer to the heart. It's what we're taught...and what we do.
So when the hospital refers to Jahi as "the body" or "the deceased", it's because that's the proper way to describe Jahi's body...it's the medical condition that her body is in right now.
It is also a technique to sort of 'force' Mom to accept Jahi is dead...or at least, not contributing to the false perceptions Mom has, that Jahi is alive. Although, at this point, I don't believe Mom is going to ever believe - at least publically - that Jahi is dead...she's far too vested in believing Jahi is alive. Vested in many ways.
(And while I'm at the whole terminology thing, I got to wondering about that mucus incident. Why did Jahi need her mother to wipe her nose for her? She was 13, and able to use her hands/arms...so why was Mom wiping the nose? Just something that's been bugging me...)
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