Rubydoo67 said:
I must say, this is one of the first times I have actually cried over someone I didn't even know. ...
I cried too. I was watching our local news when I read a ticker tape scrolling at the bottom of the screen. I had so hoped that they would find this little girl alive. It was such a senseless murder of an innocent, young girl.
When I watched the tape, I wondered if the guy hadn't approached her saying that someone with her description was reported as stealing something from an establishment. He approached her with such aggression and grabbed her by the wrist. I am sure that the girl was totally confused. I, as an adult, don't know how I would respond if someone accused me of something and grabbed me. I can imagine that this little girl was in shock.
Thank God the car wash had a video and this abduction was caught on tape. How did they figure out Carlie took this route (shortcut) home? Did she tell someone that she was going that way?
I hope that LE did not delay in taking action to find this girl. I have heard they suggested that she possibly was a runaway. Parents know their children best. I believe LE should do everything possible right away because it is the first hours that are the most important.
I agree that children need to see the tape and know they are not to go with anyone. If someone grabs them, they should scream, kick, do anything to bring attention to themselves. Don't worry about getting into trouble. It is better to err on the side of personal safety. No adult, no matter how justified, should accost a child. If it were legitimate, this wouldn't have happened.
I also noticed that Carlie wasn't paying attention to her surroundings. I believe that she was looking down and slightly moved to one side when approached by this guy. Kids should be aware of their surroundings, especially if they are alone. They should move to the opposite side of the road or out of reach if someone is headed directly towards them.