Yesterday I got to the office, park in the metered parking on a busy street right across the street from my office and I go out 2 hours later to feed the meter and some jackass has SMASHED in the right rear backseat window to steal a box of children's clothing, I had planned to drop off at my cousin's after work! @#$!%! SMASHED IT!!!! It happened on a busy street, in broad daylight, and nobody saw a thing... which brings me to another point...
Sprout and I had our first teenage attitude malfunction recently
when she fought with me because I wouldn't let her and a friend go to the
bowling alley without either me, her dad or her grandfather with them. She
just came out of herself and literally was incredibly pissy and angry and rude to me until I brought her to her knees with soap in her mouth. She has since realized the error of her ways...
But this case is just heartbreaking and I made Sprout watch it several times
and impressed upon her that THIS is why she is not allowed to do anything
unsupervised. I don't care if she is not the cool kid in school. I don't
care if the popular boobie club teenage girls don't invite her to hang out
at their houses where their parents let them be home alone and go out at
night and cruise the neighborhood for teenage boys. I don't give a flying
fat rat's *advertiser censored* about that. This case is why I drive my daughter and pick her
up from everything and attend football games and basketball games if she
wants to go to them. It is why I go to the movies and sit in the back row
if I have to, when she wants to see a movie, it is why she doesn't get to go
to the bowling alley with just her friends or even the mall with just her
friends.
According to statistics 90% of stranger abductions, rapes and murders are
crimes of opportunity. Sorry, but I feel no pressure whatsoever to allow my
child to be some sick pervert's opportunity. The odds may be against her
being a victim... but why the fork would I even want to take that forkin
chance? It only takes a second.
There this rat *advertiser censored* was right on video, on a busy street, in broad daylight with the video played everywhere... he is now in jail :behindbar but Carlie who is 11 years old...still is not home with her mommy.
I don't care if my daughter never gets the experience of walking to the
store or to school, or around the neighborhood alone. That just means those
are a few opportunities some sick *advertiser censored* won't have to harm her.
Anyway- even though the window being shattered was a big inconvenience and I threw a hissy fit for a few minutes... I took a good look at it in
perspective of recent events and realize, sure it was a crime, it happened
in broad daylight, and nobody did a damn thing... but I was not hurt and my
child was not hurt. It was just a broken window and it could be fixed.
That's why there is insurance.
Who do we talk to about changing the laws so if a person harms a child they
lose all their rights forever and ever? Who do we see about making sure they have no insurance like appeals, probation and parole to set them free again?
Bean