RiverRat
Patsy Ramsey to the Left
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no1noz Posted 06 January 2007 07:56 AM Hide Post
I FULLY appreciate she is hurting. SHE neeeds to understand that I AM TOO. Alhough Coralrose was her niece, SHE WAS MY DAUGHTER. The fact that her niece was murdered does not give her permission to demand I do what she wants me to, even if it is something I am not comfortable with. Like speaking to the media. It was only after she told me I HAD TO SPEAK TO THEM BECAUSE HER NIECE DIED that I tried to explain that although she is hurting a niece os different from a daughter. She did not wish to hear that and so here we are. This all less than 2 weeks after Marci told me to get over it.
Again I will state I KNOW SHE IS HURTING. I KNOW SHE LOVED CORALROSE. but so am I. Coralrose was MY daughter. I am the one that carried her. I am the one that breast fed her. I am the one that lived on applesauce and oatmeal and water for a week to prove to the doctor that she was allergic to the breast milk it self and not something I was eating. I am the one that cleaned her skinned knees. I am the one that rocked her when she cried. I am the one that spoke to teachers about a myriad of issues. That was me. She was my daughter. and when Marci chooses to look beyond her own grief, I will be here. She is my sister.
Posts: 77 | Registered: 25 September 2006
I FULLY appreciate she is hurting. SHE neeeds to understand that I AM TOO. Alhough Coralrose was her niece, SHE WAS MY DAUGHTER. The fact that her niece was murdered does not give her permission to demand I do what she wants me to, even if it is something I am not comfortable with. Like speaking to the media. It was only after she told me I HAD TO SPEAK TO THEM BECAUSE HER NIECE DIED that I tried to explain that although she is hurting a niece os different from a daughter. She did not wish to hear that and so here we are. This all less than 2 weeks after Marci told me to get over it.
Again I will state I KNOW SHE IS HURTING. I KNOW SHE LOVED CORALROSE. but so am I. Coralrose was MY daughter. I am the one that carried her. I am the one that breast fed her. I am the one that lived on applesauce and oatmeal and water for a week to prove to the doctor that she was allergic to the breast milk it self and not something I was eating. I am the one that cleaned her skinned knees. I am the one that rocked her when she cried. I am the one that spoke to teachers about a myriad of issues. That was me. She was my daughter. and when Marci chooses to look beyond her own grief, I will be here. She is my sister.
Posts: 77 | Registered: 25 September 2006