Montrealaise
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After the divorce, WA told anyone who would listen that DM treated her badly. From what I've been able to learn, his ''sins'' were the following:He more than likely was highly career driven. He managed to get accepted and graduate from Harvard. My guess is that WA was a bit jealous of all that. She was used to being in the limelight. She said he didn't view her as an equal. Apparently, he didn't worship her the way she felt she deserved. So she stormed out of the marriage like a child.
1. His career was more successful than hers - he was a highly regarded legal scholar. All of her life, her parents had idolized her and told her she was the best at everything she did; now she had to play second fiddle to someone who was more accomplished.
2. He loved her but he didn't idolize her or put her on a pedestal the way her parents had.
3. His career kept them in Tallahassee (he was a tenured professor at FSU) and she felt trapped in a city she hated.
4. When she wanted to move back to Miami with the kids, he fought for and was granted joint custody - forcing her to stay in Tallahassee.
It's too bad he didn't read her book, or he wouldn't have been blindsided by the divorce. Her book is a thinly-disguised autobiography in which the heroine is a beautiful, idealistic and successful immigration lawyer who is married to a professor whom she despises.
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