What also is sad is I've seen the widow say that the ex isn't and hasn't allowed the twins to see their siblings since the murder. I understand that divorces can be very difficult and emotions and things can be crazy and people do things out of those emotions and then often later after some time has passed they put differences aside and work together for the kids (not talking about abuse cases or where divorce is happening because of something very very wrong with one parent or neglect, etc. This case seems like dad was a good dad and no real reason for ex to be so awful about custody or him seeing the kids, etc.). So in my mind, if there is no involvement from the ex or her new husband or anyone in her family, then once Jared was murdered, why what would the motive be for keeping the kids from seeing their siblings? They already lost their dad, now the siblings they have known for 3 years are also taken from them and possibly even the relationship they had formed with their step mom too.. just makes no sense. You'd think murder would cause someone to think about things more and allow for some of those connections to be continued to help her kids deal with this huge loss.