ITA. Also noting that most of the accusations he levels at the other poster are true of himself. Almost like it's his own inner dialogue. Personally, I see a lot of things about SS that scream psychopath to me. Particularly that he doesn't seem to care who he is as a human being or what he does with his life but does seem to try to control how OTHERS view him. I see him attempting to control narratives a lot, whether in those threads, or in the interviews. I see that no matter what is being discussed, it always comes back to him and stroking his own ego. While I don't completely discount the friends accounts of him on the GH vids, I keep my thoughts in check to remember that SS controlled those narratives as well, only telling the friends what he wanted them to believe. So grain of salt on those for me. We don't know how long SS and JS have been together, whether there were breaks in the relationship, or what the living arrangements might be, and I doubt either "Frank" or the other guy ever got a real story about it all either. I see a man who didn't let people into his life on any real level because then he lost control of the narrative and his ability to manipulate, gaslight, or other wise gain empathy or favors from others.
One thing that stands out to me very greatly is that we have yet to see ANY other woman come forward to say they went on a date with him or had a relationship with him etc. I find that odd and telling about him. edited by me for spelling/grammar.