I'm going to the 'Hair Wars For the Love of Michelle' benefit tomorrow night. This will be the first time back for me since going to the fundraiser at The Barn. I live approx 3 1/2 hours from Orlando. That first week she went missing I was in Orlando for a training seminar with my job. During our down time I met up with the family and friends at the post they set up and I volunteered to hand out fliers. I really connected with Yvonne (Michelle's mother). She is a gracious, warm woman whom my heart breaks for.
My heart is also broken for Michelle's three innocent children. I can't imagine having to answer the " When is Mommy coming back home?" questions or see what this has done to her 11 year old son.
To see Dalejr "like" the 'Friends and Supporters of the Dale Smith" page on his Facebook account deeply disturbs me. (among countless other things). I don't see where he has "liked" the "Missing Michelle Parker" page aka MOTHER to his two children. (unless I missed it) Yes, I know this may not be 'such a big deal'
to others. It is to me. It's understandable to not like or care for an ex; however, when that ex is the mother of your children then that certainly changes things. Or it SHOULD. It is said 'one of the very best thing you can do for your children is to love and respect their mother.' At the very least get along with and be kind to their mother. Perhaps even rally behind their mother's family and show your support and your determination to bring your children's mother back to them because "they need their mother." They sure do need their mother. They want their mother. Cry for their mother. Wish for their mother. It is their mommy! My heart aches for them. The loss profound. I pray every night and day for those children and Michelle's family to be reunited with their mother, their daughter, their sister alive and well. Sadly to say, my hope has faded. It seems something tragic has happened to their mother.
If Dalejr is innocent I just do not understand him. IMO innocent people don't "lawyer up." I had the chance to volunteer a few years back for a missing children's foundation and I met Mark Klaas. (Founder of Klasskids Foundation for Children) He told us what he went through when his daughter, Polly, went missing. He gave us the stats on all the missing persons cases he has since gotten involved with and he said when a person that is close with the victim cannot be cleared when police attempt that raises a Red Flag. As we know stats show it's usually someone close to the victim. So, if one is innocent and you want your children's mother to be found asap because "your kids need their mother" you'd think you would go ahead and tell the authorities "Ill do whatever you need, want, right now because I need you to find my children's mother!" Because you want them to move on from you so they can look elsewhere. Right?
Unless, of course, you weren't completely innocent or innocent at all.
I can't think of any other explanation to not cooperate with the authorities to be cleared. Especially when so much is at stake. This is the Mother of your children here. I definitely cannot think of any other explanation to not only not cooperate but also to get an attorney. And right away.
If it walks like a duck and it talks like a duck......IMO.
Applying logic, connecting the dots, IMO how can it not be a duck? That's not a real question. I know many people will probably have lots to disagree with what I've said. The above is only my opinion. How I see it. I've read everything I could get my hands on regarding this case. I've met the family twice now. I'll be supporting them tomorrow night in Orlando at the Hair Wars benefit for Michelle Parker's children. Btw Michelle's daughter looks so much like her mother especially her eyes and smile. Just a beautiful little girl. I saw the twins pictures on the "friends and supporters of Dale Smith" facebook page. Though I could barely read most of the comments over there. Ridiculous at best. IMO.
I ask myself, 'could Dale have hated Michelle more than he loves his children?'
I hope not. Because "those children do need their mother. "
******** just my opinions nothing more ~ nothing less. Everyone has them. :seeya: **********