Sorry can't relate to that! I always thought that is what families were for! I have never asked anyone for money either. I have always worked. Even after some lowlife killed my son, i didn't ever expect money from anyone, i worked! Have gone all through my life, independent. Some people don't have the luxury, even after their child is killed to receive money, they get a bit of grievance leave from work, and then they are expected to go back to work. I also had to pay $7,000 for my son's funeral out of my own pocket, no donations there!!! That is the harsh reality for a lot of folks that have had a child die.