I couldn't agree more that Andrea is a narcissist. I saw it daily when I knew her in college. I am sure that the affair w/Hemy was appealing because in her eyes, finally she was being worshipped as she felt she deserved.
I just don't see the connection between Rusty's murder and her relationship with Joseph Dell. I think she just cannot be without a man, and she snagged another one. How she does it I will never know. I guess Dell likes being a rescuer. I am galled at the thought of Andrea throwing a baby shower for Dell's now ex-wife. How awful. Andrea is very despicable. However, where is the evidence to convict? I keep waiting for a bombshell that never comes.
I can speak from personal experience with one of Andrea's more vocal supporters- he is a really nice guy, but has always been on the naive side. I have seen him take the wrong side of disputes before. I know Andrea visited him and his family since Rusty's murder. He has been lifelong friends with the Sneiderman family and it would always be his tendency to be neutral in a dispute. I just feel that neutrality right now is support of Andrea. Especially in light of the relationship with Dell, a married man with a pregnant wife, I fail to see how anyone can support her. Even if she is acquitted I will never ever forgive her role in this.