This little girl died in FL June 16. Her core temp was 109° at the ER.
http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/06/20/girl-dies-hot-car/11087783/
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See, this is what drives me crazy. I know people think it's cruel to prosecute the parents no matter what, but I do think that we need to change the way we deal with these accidents. Judges are allowed to set the sentencing and I think if a parent truly accidentally forgot their child (even though I loathe that idea) they would not receive a harsh sentence in court. Perhaps 2 years of probation and a year of community service. Those parents who truly did forget would not mind IMO that sort of sentence, it would almost be a penance for their loss.
But the system needs to be changed so that murderers don't get a free pass on these crimes. In most of the cases the parents are never charged because "they have suffered enough" and it's always creeped me out to think that a murderer who wants to get rid of their child has a very easy way to do it. If that same murderer knew that they would be prosecuted and have their day in court and potentially face life in prison, they would think twice about doing it.
The same thing with kids who drown in swimming pools. How hard would it be to just toss your baby in the pool right around the time a phone call happens, walk inside the house and chat for ten minutes and then freak out on the phone running outside, "OH my god!!!"
We're making it too easy to commit murder. That's why it has to change. This guy got caught, but I bet he's not the only one who did it on purpose.
Many parents who wait to have children suddenly feel like their lives are turned upside down and they can't adjust and are overwhelmed by it all. It is very easy to me to see someone who pinned so much hope on having children be completely blindsided by the reality of it and "wish things could go back to the way it was before."
Prosecuting ALL parents would protect potential victims.
The more I think about how the dad was described as acting, I don't think he did his homework.
IF he planned this for what ever reason thinking he could walk away with no charges. ...
I don't think he realized that his son would be in rigors when he took him from the seat. I think at that very moment he realized it was over for him. There wasn't going to be any way to make an explanation for any of it.
He was pitching a fit for himself. He was panic stricken realizing he had just had his last day of freedom.
I really wish an eye for an eye applied.
Plop him in that car strap him down and park it in the sun.
I am so heartbroken for this baby!
I don't know about the state of rigors for him being the moment of realization and relating to his response and behavior. IMO if he did do this we can evaluate what was probably going on.
Keep in mind that if he did plan this, he intended to find the boy dead in the car at lunch (was it noon? Just checking) If he intended to do this, he's probably read newspaper articles or stories about this happening before and in those articles they usually put a chart that shows how hot the car gets on the INSIDE when the weather outside is a certain temperature. In most of these stories they suggest that death will happen pretty quickly, like within an hour. So he probably figured 3 hours was plenty of time.
I'd be interested in knowing what the temperature was that week and if it had spiked the day of the death. If it did, it's a clue to me that he was waiting for the right opportunity.
He goes to work and the plan is to bring something down to the car at lunch and make a horrible discovery. But he gets down there and the baby is still alive. Choking but still alive. Now he knows he screwed but he's at the point of no return. He can't call 911 right then, because if he does he could potentially be left with a brain damaged or physically impaired child to care for for the rest of his life. So now that he's come to the car and will leave it again he's pretty much going to be busted. And he knows it.
How to get out of it? He googles the animal dying in the car and then realizes he can't run out again because it's too soon. So he waits and decides to make the discovery somewhere else to try to draw attention away from the parking lot. But he knows by then that there is a real chance he's going to get caught. He made a mistake. He should have waited longer.
Now all he can do is stick to the story that he forgot and hope it will still work in court. It's the only chance he has.
One more thing I'd like to add, even though a bowl movement is not a 100 percent in a dying child, I would think the nature of the death with a child hysterial crying and in stress, after eating food, would definitely cause a bowl movement.
I am not convinced it was purely accidental. He ate breakfast with his 2 yr old son, and yet 4 minutes later, he has no awareness that the child is with him in the car? How does that happen?
And just to play devil's advocate for a second. It is possible IMO that he could have forgotten if the child simply quieted down. Most kids do make a lot of noise in the car but that's usually when there are other kids next to them or they've been strapped in a really long time. Cooper could have remained silent after being strapped in and the father could have gotten his mind wires crossed if he didn't normally go to breakfast.
Ex. Routine is
A. put Cooper in the car seat
B take Cooper out of the car seat at day care
If he didn't normally make the stop he may have subconsciously clicked into the routine "I put Cooper into the car and I've taken him out once" and just blanked on the putting him back in again.
He MAY have forgotten, it's possible. I just don't think that he wouldn't have noticed him when he came down to the car at noon.
I can't speak about every case were children are forgotten and die in cars but the ones I have heard about.... the parent has found them when they return to the car or at some point during the day. I have never heard of the person driving a distance and then discovering the child. I think he drove a ways to try and air out the car possibly? That the car smelled so badly after paramedics arrived and the doors had been opened awhile and yet people want to assert that maybe he didn't smell it right away is just ludicrous imo.
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This is a very interesting observation. I wonder if there's a computer program in the car that could show whether the windows had been rolled down? If there is, this is something law enforcement could use as evidence as well. I hope they think to investigate it.