The bold is mine.
JI went to work at 5:40pm. He was supposed to be done around 10pm. The job took longer than he thought. LE has surveillance footage of him AT WORK the whole time. No holes there...(from what I understand) The 911 call was made at 4:04am. He got home a little before 4. Again, LE has his whereabouts for the time he was gone, he was doing an electrical job at a starbucks.
From what I know so far, this is pretty accurate. Though as an aside, if I expected my husband home by 10:00, I'd give him two hours before I panicked and called 911. Nothing to do with anything, just saying.
Not much has been released about the neighbor and whether they saw Lisa or not. There were pics taken at a b-day party on the 2nd of Oct. So if they neighbor didn't see her, then family did. And I imagine when LE questioned the other children, that question was asked.
I hope the neighbour is cooperating with LE. I imagine so. She has stayed away from the media - good for her.
The neighbor has a 4 year old that was watching a movie with the other 2 kids while they visited and had wine.
Yes, enough wine that DB can't recall when she put Lisa to bed that night or saw her last.
The shopping trip with her brother was before JI went to work that night. We can assume he was with the kids.
Agreed.
Being afraid to go in the backyard: Many people see a big problem with this. I don't. You've just discovered your baby is missing. It's 4 am. If your baby is in the backyard and isn't back there crying in the grass/dirt because she was cold, what would you think had happened?? I wouldn't want to go back there either. At that moment I think her fears were coming to the surface and TO ME, this kind of points to her innocence, not guilt...
This makes DB sound like she was more concerned with herself than her baby's welfare. I'd rush into a burning building to save my baby, even if I didn't hear him screaming, or even if I knew in my heart he was dead, I couldn't just leave him in there. What if Lisa was knocked out back there? Or injured and coulnd't cry out? What kind of parent sits on their *advertiser censored* when their helpless infant is in trouble? It doesn't make DB appear more guilty or innocent, just a mother I'm glad I wasn't saddled with.
Nothing has pointed to her having a "drinking problem". I never drink. Well, rarely. 5 glasses of wine and i would be RIPPED. And because I don't drink much, I WOULD get drunk, fast.
DB said she drinks 3-4 times a week, and was plastered the night Lisa was abducted. To me, that's a drinking problem. Now, I don't know if she gets drunk those other nights, but she's not a rare drinker by any means.
Not all mothers are the same.
She had a baby monitor. Lisa had a slight cold. As a mother of 3, this happens a lot and frankly, sometimes "checking on the baby" wakes them up. Better to just leave her be and get some rest rather than constantly checking on her...
That's true. I can remember when I saw my baby last. I'd wager most mothers can. I don't think highly of those who can't, especially if it's because they were plastered. And the baby monitor is irrelevant because it's possible DB was too drunk to pay attention to it.
I hope this post did not come off as poopy or anything, I just wanted to answer some things. It's just info that I have gleaned from reading a lot about this.
It didn't at all.
All the above are just my opinions. of course. Like I said, I'm on the fence, it's possible that a stranger took Lisa, but just from what DB has said herself, her mothering, at least that night, was God awful.
Doesn't mean she deserved to have her baby kidnapped, but having her baby kidnapped doesn't mean she was a good mother that night, either.
I will say this though, I probably, as a parent have made dumb decisions that put my son at risk. Thank God my baby was never abducted. I'm sure people would be saying the same things about me that I'm saying about DB.
IMO
