How do you feel about the memorial service planned for Caylee?

[passionflower]

I agree with MADELEIN,
the A's want everything to GO AWAY...............the A's play games and think they are ABOVE the law!.........I feel searchers are VERY CLOSE because the A family seem FRANIC now.......IMO

 

[MiraclesHappen]

When does "hope" become "delusion?"

Sometime, between when sophisticated scientific forensics become hogwash namby pamby and when furry rodents who favor ethnic cuisine are responsible for everything bad in your life?

Just a guess. I'm not a shrink.
:blowkiss:

 

[krimekat]

The A's don't "own" Caylee. And since they will never have a memorial for her, I think other people who have come to love Caylee should. I would definitely attend.

I agree with you, Janis396!!!

I have a small memorial service every day for the missing Angel! The public support for Caylee is stronger than her very own family's support. I pray that she is found soon . . .

 

[tiredofthis]

I think this is a good thing. We all need closure and it appears unless Casey talks we will never know where Caylee is. One thing we do know and that is she is gone and her mom holds the only key to what happened. This case has been tough on everybody. I can't begin to count how many families suffer with the idea that one of their family members is gone with no clue where or how. Here we have a case where decomp was found in the trunk so we do know that Caylee is dead so a memorial is appropriate. We have to put up with the Anthony's crap because for them to omit Caylee is dead is to admit their daughter killed her. So its not a situation where the family wants the real answer but rather an answer they want to manufacture.
I'm sure somewhere down the road, some jogger or hiker will stumble accross her and it will answer a lot of questions, but for me this brings an end to the case ....that is until the trial early next year. Bye-bye little girl, you captured our hearts. :blowkiss:

Great post.

This off topic, but your aviator is so funny.

 

[FloridaKatz]

If one chooses to attend a prayer service or memorial, it is their first amendment right, and Blanchard Park is a public place. All they have to do is get permission from the park service. They actually do not even need permission from OSCO or FBI because it is owned by the park service. And if CA & GA don't understand this, then they need to study up on Amendments.

IMO, we are getting close because CA & GA have never shown up for a search before. The likelyhood of the searchers finding anything there at this point is low, as I was there this weekend, and the area they had us searching is a "thick thicket". I'm going back though, next weekend.

 

[Brini]

Sometime, between when sophisticated scientific forensics become hogwash namby pamby and when furry rodents who favor ethnic cuisine are responsible for everything bad in your life?

Just a guess. I'm not a shrink.
:blowkiss:

:clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap:

 

[Truthwillsetufree]

I totally agree with this up until the statement by the kidfinder's representative. Kidfinders is not doing the Anthonys any favors.

Before The A's start poking at others morals and ethics...I suggest they clean up their own. JMO.

 

[Truthwillsetufree]

Bold mine: Don't let them fool you. They do not for one second "believe" she is alive. What they "believe" is that as long as they carry on the charade, then the offers get bigger and bigger, and just as Mr. Baez made a "file" to reach into if need be and take out an offer, they also have made themselves a "file" and they are selling out to the highest bidder left and right. They KNOW that Caylee is not alive and that is what makes it all the more despicable. You could not read George's statement from July 24th and NOT know that he KNOWS. Everyone who keeps saying Mr. Padilla is "just in it for the money" maybe needs to step back and see that the Anthony's are in it for the money worse than anyone else. They are milking this for all it is worth, and in the process confusing the issues with their dear daughter and creating a smoke-screen everywhere they go.

:clap::clap:

 

[Truthwillsetufree]

It is obvious that Caylee has touched many people. I begrudge no one who has followed her tragic story to honor her life how they see fit. A public memorial would not be my choice but I can understand how this would be cathartic for many, particularly those volunteers who have tirelessly searched with the hope and purpose of finding her and laying her to rest. I can not imagine how that has worn upon the hearts and minds of searchers. It has been very clear for some time now that the lack of answers in this case and the behavior of KC and others has hindered any closure one might hope for the family or for one's self. I have always thought that peace with this case will come when Caylee's remains are found (if possible) and laid to rest with the honor and respect befitting of the beautiful and spirited child she was in life. Now that is looking less and less likely. So to those who wish to hold a memorial, LP and others, and to the family and supporters who will likely cling to their vigils and the guise of finding a live Caylee, I hope this brings you closer to that peace. For myself, I will take the holiday tomorrow to take a long walk with my dog in the woods and think of Caylee in the quiet beauty of nature, remembering fondly a child I never knew but who was so obviously full of grace.

Very Very Very nice post.

 

[Spyglass]

I've thought this through and come to the conclusion that FOR ME the memorial service/prayer vigil is a good thing. Though there will always be hope that something may be found accidentally or by the kind souls who continue to search in small groups, I now have some sense of finality to the search phase.

I appreciate all the time, money, and effort by TM, LP and volunteers to find Caylee.TO ME, the Anthony's have been a hindrance to the search for truth and the search for Caylee.

Now, my focus and hope is for justice for Caylee. My heroes are LE and the district attorney. I expect the Anthony's to continue to be a hindrance in the search for justice for Caylee; I hope I'm wrong.

 

[shotzie]

I have watched this tragedy since day one, and each day my heart breaks looking into the eyes of this little girl,

I could write a book of all the wrongs her grandparents and mother have done, but it is about Caylee and she needs closure. If we wait for the Anthony's it might be never.

So today I can say Goodbye to the little angel. Wherever she is..Love you Caylee

 

[doogiesgirl]

Why shouldn't LP or anyone else who felt led to do so have a memorial service for
Caylee. IMO it's about time someone attempted to put her memory if not her body to rest. I will always hope that some day some of her remains will be found and properly buried but I think it is time for me to put her soul in heaven, I doubt she will ever be found and I have to let it rest. God knows the A's are not going to put her to rest.

I have seen many people say they cannot stand to hear or watch the A's any more and then another poster come back with "so change the channel and don't watch then!". So why does that thought not apply????? If you don't think anyone but the A's have the right to memorialize Caylee, then don't attend! JMO

 

[TruthSeeker]

While I can understand why complete strangers would want to hold a prayer vigil for lil Caylee, a Memorial should only be held by the family. Sorry folks, but this is a ploy for publicity. I mean - RG is the one saying the prayers while LP is organizing it? Doesnt anyone else smell publicity hounds??? I say beware of wolves in sheeps clothing. I just keep waiting to see who gets the better movie/book deal - LP or RG. LP is always after the publicity, and RG is an actor (very convincing isnt he?). My bets are on RG....

This whole thing is turning into a circus..........this is not about Caylee anymore - its about who can be on NG more, who can generate publicity more... it sickens me.

:clap::clap::clap:

WELL SAID!!!

 

[Truthwillsetufree]

Well, I just watched the prayer/memorial service by the pond/riverbank and I must say it was beautiful and heartfelt. Rev. Grund was gracious and eloquent. I think it shook LP. The poor man kept sighing and blowing his breaths out of pursed lips. I felt empathy for this man as he has given so much time, energy and himself in looking for Caylee. The searchers and other folks that attended were solemn, respectful and grieving as they too have given time, energy and themselves. They went into harms way on Caylee's behalf, the searchers have given so freely of themselves. I thought it a very befitting place and time to hold this service whatever anyone wants to call it. It was obvious this was not done for spite or anything else, it was done for the love of a child.

 

[awakewriter]

If the searchers who have volunteered their time and taken Caylee into their hearts need some closure, then they should be allowed a memorial service.

 

[essies]

Well, I just watched the prayer/memorial service by the pond/riverbank and I must say it was beautiful and heartfelt. Rev. Grund was gracious and eloquent. I think it shook LP. The poor man kept sighing and blowing his breaths out of pursed lips. I felt empathy for this man as he has given so much time, energy and himself in looking for Caylee. The searchers and other folks that attended were solemn, respectful and grieving as they too have given time, energy and themselves. They went into harms way on Caylee's behalf, the searchers have given so freely of themselves. I thought it a very befitting place and time to hold this service whatever anyone wants to call it. It was obvious this was not done for spite or anything else, it was done for the love of a child.

I saw nothing that the Anthony's could object to,in fact, I heard more love coming from this service than anything the Anthony's have said or shown to date!
Cindy-take a lesson. You and those who stand with you (your lawyers, Kidfinders, and family) would get alot more sympathy and compassion if you could show an ounce of the same genuine emotion that was shown here today!

 

[SUR]

I saw nothing that the Anthony's could object to,in fact, I heard more love coming from this service than anything the Anthony's have said or shown to date!
Cindy-take a lesson. You and those who stand with you (your lawyers, Kidfinders, and family) would get alot more sympathy and compassion if you could show an ounce of the same genuine emotion that was shown here today!

Did any of you still attacking the Anthony's actually LISTEN to the service? By the accusations and hateful words STILL spoken about Cindy by so many here I think the words went right over your heads. How sad that a man who actually knew Caylee can ask for the Anthony's not to be attacked but strangers think they know better. He knew Caylee loved them and they loved Caylee and Caylee would not want her grandparents attacked but that seems to make no difference to some people.

 

[Balthazar]

I was VERY happy to hear that RG explained to LP that this was a Prayer Service and NOT a Memorial. That is the proper etiquette for holding such an event at this time. From what I could hear and see of Cindy's confrontation with LP, that was her main concern. I think that is reasonable and fair. A memorial service, when held, is for the benefit of the family and those people who actually knew the deceased. It is not something to be hijacked by people who never even knew Caylee, even if they are emotionally invested in this situation.

For those of you who disagree, think of it this way:
There should only be 1 memorial or funeral for a single person. It is a momentous occaision and not one to be trifled with or done in the heat of the moment. Most importantly, how would you feel if a close relative of yours died and a bunch of people you don't know and your relative never knew, suddenly decided to hold a funeral or memorial service for your relative without consulting you and you find out about the event by the announcement in the newspaper. That is the equivalent of what Cindy felt was going on. RG, as a minister, understands this. That is why he corrected LP and told him, this could only be a prayer service.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

Did any of you still attacking the Anthony's actually LISTEN to the service? By the accusations and hateful words STILL spoken about Cindy by so many here I think the words went right over your heads. How sad that a man who actually knew Caylee can ask for the Anthony's not to be attacked but strangers think they know better. He knew Caylee loved them and they loved Caylee and Caylee would not want her grandparents attacked but that seems to make no difference to some people.

Have you read RG's words or seen the videos of things that he has said about them?! Or how about we listen to more videos of CA, GA, and Casey to understand why so many feel like strangers know better?! Just because he is trying to diffuse the situation doesn't mean we will forget what has been done in this case to Caylee because of Casey and her family.

Caylee loved her mother. Does it mean she should go free? Should we walk away from prosecuting her because Caylee loved her? No, Caylee would not want her punished and sitting in jail. She was a baby and cannot comprehend the atrocities which were perpetuated on her then or now. The words do not move me to let Casey escape justice or the A fam to continue to perpetuate her lies to save her skin.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

I was VERY happy to hear that RG explained to LP that this was a Prayer Service and NOT a Memorial. That is the proper etiquette for holding such an event at this time. From what I could hear and see of Cindy's confrontation with LP, that was her main concern. I think that is reasonable and fair. A memorial service, when held, is for the benefit of the family and those people who actually knew the deceased. It is not something to be hijacked by people who never even knew Caylee, even if they are emotionally invested in this situation.

For those of you who disagree, think of it this way:
There should only be 1 memorial or funeral for a single person. It is a momentous occaision and not one to be trifled with or done in the heat of the moment. Most importantly, how would you feel if a close relative of yours died and a bunch of people you don't know and your relative never knew, suddenly decided to hold a funeral or memorial service for your relative without consulting you and you find out about the event by the announcement in the newspaper. That is the equivalent of what Cindy felt was going on. RG, as a minister, understands this. That is why he corrected LP and told him, this could only be a prayer service.

I have seen it happen as recently as the Hudson case where a memorial was held without the family.

To me, this was and will be considered a MEMORIAL service. It is the only one I ever see happening for Caylee to remember her short life and the closest she will ever come to having a respectful end. RG can call it whatever he pleases. Nearly 1100 people came together today to say goodbye to Caylee Marie except the ones like RG who believe it was for another reason. They are free to believe what they wish in order to make it through the day.

RIP Caylee Marie Anthony You are loved.